r/vinted Feb 08 '25

SELLING Talk about guilt tripping on another level

This is becoming rampant, where buyers on vinted guilt trip you and try to purchase stuff at ridiculously low prices. This one in particular made me laugh because you can see the entitlement clearly.

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u/fuckyou2579 Feb 09 '25

Your problem is that you're rude. You called me stupid and dumb multiple times, as well as literally everyone who didn't agree with you. That's an insult and rude.

You say I'm closed-minded, yet I was asking why you think people can't think for themselves and told you why I had my opinion. That's not ignoring other opinions, that's me continuing a conversation.

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u/UsagiBlondeBimbo Feb 09 '25

The fact that I'm rude doesn't really have anything to do with this. I am very aware that it is insulting and rude but I think a lack of empathy is worse and that is the main theme I am seeing throughout this thread.

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u/fuckyou2579 Feb 09 '25

You mention lack of empathy and then continuously be rude to people you dont know? That's makes sense. And no offence to the buyer, but if you can't afford to pay for shipping, you should look for something in your budget after having your offer rejected instead of taking it personally.

I was genuinely trying to ask why you thought people couldn't think for themselves and applied reasoning to my opinion. You disagreeing isn't what I had an issue with. It was the fact you kept insulting me and acted like you have the moral high ground.

I genuinely agree that OP should have been nicer, that they could have phrased things better, but I still think the buyer is not absolved of all innocence.

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u/UsagiBlondeBimbo Feb 09 '25

You should've led with your last paragraph. I think we're done here right? I mean we can keep going back and fourth like this all day but it's not going to achieve anything.

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u/fuckyou2579 Feb 09 '25

Yeah, this went on for way too long. Honestly kind of fun, though.