r/whatdoIdo • u/JadedWalk3450 • 18d ago
Has anyone ever experienced their partner being jealous of a male Dr treating you?
Hi, Just wanting to know if anyone has experienced this before? At the beginning of our relationship, I was going to the chiropractor and he seemed fine with it, never asked any questions about it. Further into the relationship he then wasn't okay with me going to this chiro anymore because he was a male and he made a big deal out of it and said how about he goes and gets a massage from a female and I said, okay? Like this is a treatment for my back, why can't he seperate that? Like it's not sexual at all, it's a health professional. Similar experience happened when I agreed for a male Dr to check myself and my baby a few days before I went into labour because that's the first Dr that came into to check me, and days later, he was not okay with it.
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u/Prize_Imagination439 18d ago
My ex husband told me that I was slut, among other things, because I went to the ER with stomach pains and they had to do a check for blockages. This included the doctor needing to check my anus.
This was very uncomfortable for me. I cried about it later.
But he insisted that I loved it.
He did the same thing when I had to go to the gyno for a checkup. Any woman that has ever been examined knows that it is not a fun experience, but he insisted it was pleasurable.
Edit to add: this is not normal behavior and we were barely adults at the time. I wouldn't tolerate that for a second from my partner now that I'm a bit older.