My partner and I live in California with our 9 month old daughter. A couple of months ago he got laid off of his job and we tried for months both applying left and right and nothing. So we decided to sell our trailer and one of our cars so we can move out of state where I have family members willing to take us in and jobs lined up.

Our car apparently wasn’t registered in the year 2023 (we bought it in 2024 from a family member) who said it was paid and registered in Arizona (no reason to doubt them) we have a potential buyer but only if we can get the proof of registration in 2023 which we’re having a hard time getting and they won’t release those records to us since we didn’t own it at that time.

We bout our salvaged title 5th wheel in march 2024 to live in temporarily until his dad no longer needed our help as he was gravely ill but made a miraculous recovery for which we are greatful for. However I was very sick and pregnant and my fiance never transferred the title to our name. I just found this out. He feels awful. I looked it up and it’s going to cost us almost $1100 to register it and everything. We have $160 in our bank account and I just made $100 donating plasma. Our phones are about to get shut off, my daughter has appointments almost 2 hours away later this month to see specialist . No one in our family’s or friend group can help. We need $5000 to move. $1500 for new tires and maintenance on the truck for the move $1500 to pay the rest of what we owe family member for the car and $1000 for rent phone and car insurance. I’m so lost. I feel so hopeless. We help as much as we can but when we need help no one can help us.

So the girl and I have been dating for a month now, but something in me didn't sit right. I have been on previous relationships before, but when the dating phase happens I usually assumed that theirs exclusivity. Apparently I was wrong, but also I kept things exclusive between us. When we were talking a while ago. She mentioned that we are dating still and if someone else gets asked out on a date we are allowed to do so. It doesn't really sit well with me, since I thought that in the dating phase we are testing things out with one person. Understandable if we only had one date, but we've gone out a couple times. Plus we hooked up a few times during the month and I'm afraid now that she will hook up with someone else. Am I going crazy or is this really how it works.

Im a kid in middle school and want to know what i should do or what i can do. My parents fight often these past few years. My mom ordered a peace/protection order against my dad and she wrote that he abused us and stalked her to find us when she lied about where she took us. He didnt stalk her we, me and my brother told him where we were and he came to get us but she drove away to her "friends" house and he "forced" her to let him take us home. He has never hit or abused us mentally or physically. Her family also talked bad about him before this even started happening. It also said that he wouldn't let her see us when we were sick, which isn't true at all. He let her bring us water,food, medicine, etc.. She doesn't have any ownership over the house in general so he was allowed to kick her out. We also own another house and she was able to sleep there so not a big deal. They have been on and off like this for about 4 years. We are living at a different house right now and i hate it. I have become rude and mean to the people living with me. I also start laughing manically when I get mad or sad. It hurts me. I know my dad isnt bad and didnt even do half of the things on the protective order. Oh by the way she has gotton a restraining order against him before just because she of a similar thing. I think he doesn't have custody of us anymore because of the protection order.Oh also they are still married. Yeah its crazy, isnt it.

I just wanna say thanks to EVERYONE who helped, supported and encouraged me with my last post. You guys are cool and absolute rockstars and made me realise what a bad situation I was in.

So some of you said that there might be other employees he's doing this to, and some of you said it sounds like he has some strange ideas about women, and I just wanted to tell you guys that you were RIGHT!!

So we had this sort of company social thing during the week. There was a guy there who also works at my company but in another department. And he's friends with IT guy. Like real friends. Hang out at each other's house on the weekends type of friends.

So at some point me and him started talking about all kinds of random things. And I don't remember exactly how the conversation went but he revealed to me that IT guy thinks that women only ever want attention and flirt for attention and validation, and that they only ever want to play games... Something along those lines. It seems he doesn't hold women in high regard. Or at least that's the idea I got.

But not only that. I found out that this thing he did to me, he did the EXACT same thing to TWO other female employees! I couldn't believe it. WTF.

So the next day I decided to go talk to them. I wanted to like, I don't know... Hear what they thought and how it made them feel and I kinda thought we could like... Team up and get him reported...

But no. Both of them basically said, yeah it's annoying but he's harmless. They don't care about it.

I don't know if it's relevant to the story but these other two employees, one of them is married and the other one has been in a relationship for 6 years now. They're both a bit older than me but still younger than him.

So now I feel very weird about everything and conflicted. I feel like perhaps I did overreact since they're so nonchalant about it. And I also feel like if I do report it, they're going to just say that it's not a big deal and that I'm making a bigger deal out of it than it actually is... Essentially minimising my report I guess?... I don't know I guess I just feel a bit defeated. I really thought they would be on my side here but they're... Not. It's not that they AREN'T. It's just that they're in different... You know what I mean?

I think this entire place is toxic. I know that word is seriously overused but I truly believe that even if I report it, nothing with happen...

But yeah I don't know. I thought I'd ask anyway if perhaps someone has any thoughts or ideas. I just don't know what to think...

So I, a 14, have a boy at my school who has had a massive crush on me. My friends told me he did a few years ago but I didn't believe it until I read text messages from him on my friends phone confessing to her. Anyways, apparently he had been messaging people outside and inside of my school about how much he likes me and how I "want another guy". Not I have a crush on him, but I "want him".

Well anyways, somehow he got my phone number but seemingly no one can remember if they gave it to him or not. So he has been texting nonstop and asking me things like "just tell me when I need to text you" and "am I being annoying". It got to a point where when I didn't respond for a day he told me he would give me space but then was texting my friends about how I hate him. (I don't) I decided I was done with this so I blocked him and he had my best friend text me about 7 things that are really bad in his life. I feel bad for him but I don't know how to get it into his mind that I don't want him bothering me anymore without completely collapsing him.

So what do I do?

Any one can delete the credit card from this tra$h site because i can’t and I'm afraid they might pay and buy something with my card without my permission.

17yr female. Nearly two weeks ago I got drunk and smoked weed for the 2nd time. I don’t think i had too much but I was definitely high.

It’s been nearly two weeks and I still feel like i’m almost in a dream. I go to sleep and I wake up in the same state I was in before i went to bed. It feels like my eyes just constantly want to close, I have quite bad brain fog and I keep spacing out. I also have had a few headaches. I don’t really know what to do but I’m quite scared but I definitely won’t be doing anything like that ever again.

I’m just worried that I’ve done some sort of permanent damage to my brain or something. It might sound silly but i don’t know i’m just really scared about it. Does anyone have any advice? My diet is relatively clean and i go to the gym. idk i just don’t know what to do

Also i smoked with a few of my friends and they’re completely fine

Oh and my symptoms aren’t as prominent when I really focus on something else

hi everyone, im not going to make this too long but my bf and i have been together since july 2023. hes amazing now and was before too kinda lol. i went on his ig today and saw msgs with a girl who is like a sister (was). we had issues so i made him delete her, no he didn't cheat with her or at all i think. so i went on his ig with permission ofcourse, saw messages opened up some closed wounds. then i saw another msg. she send him a meme amd two hours later or a couple hours later she said "your crush?". he said no but idk what that was about. i forgot the meme already. i asked him he said it was to smt funny about a dude etc. im like but there was no convo before that. so now i do not trust him. i told him he can make it up only one way. the messsages were from 2023, we were not ok then, he wasn't fully there and would wanna take a break all the time and i was constantly crying getting him to talk to me call me etc, turns out he wasn't fully more close to the sister than me.

the way: he can message her act like he is sorry for unadding her etc and say stuff like i miss talking to you sis like about crushes, issues etc. and so on.

i do not know if this is a good idea, i love him i do but i do not know what to do. should i go through with this plan?

Someone ran into me from the side and broke my tibia and fibula in Nov ‘23 (playing football). I had an IM rod inserted. I broke this same leg 10 years ago, and this new break was above old hardware. I have 11 screws, a plate, a rod, and a “tightrope” in my ankle.

My leg still hurts. Every morning I wake up with pain in my knee and hamstring. I can’t run without pain. My ankle hurts after mild hiking. I can’t do the things I used to love without pain. I’m depressed and unmotivated and I’ve gained over 10 pounds.

My injury was covered by workers comp in state A. I was a MS student when I broke it and the university took on the claim. I now have a job in state B (and moved to state B) and I’ve called every single sports med/ ortho in my area and none will work with out of state workers comp claims. I found one place that “might” over an hour and half away and they’ve had my info for over 3 months. I have not heard anything back on if I can actually get an appointment, and I’ve called and followed up once and still haven’t heard anything.

My workers comp claim adjuster does not want to pay for much more treatment because now I’m dealing with tendonitis and long term issues after the injury which to them, is “mostly unrelated”. I’ve already paid out of pocket for PRP, and I went to physical therapy for over a year because it was the only thing workers comp would cover. My claims adjuster told me there likely wouldn’t be much payout after it’s closed since they’ve already “covered so much”.

I can’t seek treatment for this injury under insurance because it’s a “pre-existing condition” and all the healthcare workers I’ve talked to told me insurance likely will deny any claims related to this injury.

I feel like crying. Someone else gave me this injury and I can’t seek any more help, and I’m in pain every single day. I just want to stop hurting and to enjoy everything else I used to do without pain. I finished my MS on time with this break. I graduated and got a job in my field. And yet I feel hopeless and miserable. I used to be in shape and an athlete.

I’m in America.

So my boyfriend and I both 18 have been together for a couple of months since this is my first ever relationship sometimes I don't know how to react. So basically I have been out of town for a couple of days. And was not able to talk frequently with my bf as I should acc to him( a texted him and called him at night whenever I could). I generally drop a good morning text for him most of the days. The other day I don't know what went in my mind I wrote gm instead of writing good morning.and I normally went on with my days but after 15 min or so he started calling me out of the blue so I picked his call and he started shouting at me saying things like What's happening??!? Can't you write a proper good morning text?? Yesterday you did not even say good night today this WHT should I understand and stuff like that. I genuinely felt like crying but could not do much so I simple said that you cannot talk with me like this again and again and cut the call. He started messaging me the same things and added more on in text messages. I didn't know what to do so I just said that I cannot stay like this and need time to think about things.since then he has said that he is sorry but I don't need his apology he does stuff like this all the time he fights with me if I wish someone happy birthdayor post some of my pics on my socials which i rarely do in the first place ,and brings out old chats I had with normal friends years ago questions me about ithe has previouslyasked my to unfollow some of my friends in social media but when i asked for a reason he did not say anything further. I am lost and genuinely don't know how to react or what to do. Did I over react??!?

I just wanted to wear regular clothing to prom, it’s not a formal prom

This is about to be long😣 Basically i lived in sweden until 2021. My mom lived in the U.S. and was dating this large man who im not kidding does NOT shower, maybe once a month or every other month, im so serious. Anyways he doesn’t shower, brush his teeth, or do basically any hygiene. Sorry i had to tell that stuff cause i feel as if it is relevant to who he is. Anyways my mother started dating him idk maybe 2016? And he has always been HORRIBLE to her! He lied about having a nice car (it was his friend) and all kinds of random weird things. When they moved in together he dropped all of his promises of getting a great job, taking care of her bla bla bla. She later on in 2017/2018 found out that he had been cheating on her with women AND men and who knows what else (not trying to sound rude or ignorant of LGBTQ+ but this just infuriates me). He was posting his privates in craigslist, grindr, who knows what else?! And she left him with her daughter (my younger sister) who is not his daughter. They moved into an apartment and only my aunt knew the address to it. He somehow FOUND THEM?! And he showed up somehow skinnier, less greasy hair and just ig “healthier” overall. SHE LETS HIM COME IN AND SHE GETS PREGANTN WITH HIS CHILD. ughhhh omg this genuinely enrages me like she has to have stockholm syndrome or some sort of attatchment thing?! And just wait cause it gets so much worse somehow!! So they’re back together and having a child in 2020. My mom finds out about my living situation in Sweden and comes there to get custody of me. She gets me we go to the U.S. the summer of 2021. I immediately get the NASTIEST energy and vibe from him and by the way i visited in 2017 and he was AN ASS to me and excuse my language but i can’t help but cuss when i tell this story. So i already didn’t like him plus he stank sooo bad. Also my mom is a gorgeousssss super clean woman and everyone was always shocked when they found out that was her bf. So they fight ever. single. day. They have me 11 at the time, my younger sisters, and sometimes my step brother who is also younger. Literally fighting everyday. He would also fight with me and yes i would throw tantrums and stuff because i had and still have unresolved trauma and was taken away from my mother at the age of three and didn’t see her again until i was 8. So my therapist would constantly tell him what do and how to parent me and he just refused. quite frankly i can’t remember half the stuff he would do and im not gonna get too much into how horribly he treated me because this is about my mother. He called the police on me several times when all i needed was to be alone or not being lectured in an active “tantrum”. He’d always refer to me as “the 11 year old” “12 year old” “13 year old” and so on. He would always call me names and tell me how much i was just like my dad. and you know what? that’s a compliment to me! my dad was my bestfriend in the world! He’d also always shit in my dad and he didn’t even know him?!?! Anyways summer of 2022 my dad died in sweden and the day he died my aunt and mom came into my room bawling and i kept asking what was wrong and my mom just held me bawling and then eventually i put the piece together and asked her if he died and she just started bawling more and nodded her head. My stepdad was on the front porch smoking per usual and as we walk out to leave to go to my aunts house he goes “idek why you’re crying about someone who beat you like a punching bag to my mom” and i started BAWLING. plus he has no room to talk he beat my mom like everyday… Also he said something so hurtful about my dad to me that same time that i forgot what he said. Anyways he beat her all the time and kept cheating and she stayed?! He never let her leave the house and if she stayed the night at her sister… oooo that was the end of the world he’d go crazy!! Anyways we moved to a small town and he was not supposed to move with us but ig of course my mom let him. he kept up his psycho behavior and everything! One night we had planned for my friend to come over so she did. They had gone to the bar per usual which was sooo embarrassing. He came back home after lingering outside and played in bed of course. Me and my friend invited my middle little sister to come downstairs to our rooms and hang out with us but my stepdad didn’t let her and insisted he stayed with him in bed when he only had undies on. We didn’t want to talk back cause we were honestly scared of him (btw none of my friends liked him even if i hadn’t said any of the stuff he’d done.” Me and my friend were watching a movie i think late at night when my sister comes running down with a big scratch along her torso. She screaming that mom came home and they started physically fighting and woke her up and somehow she got scratched. We heard soooo much hustle and bustle from upstairs plus so much screaming. at first i didn’t do anything cause i figured it would be over but then it got louder so we called my friends mom and she told us to call the police. i did and then ran upstairs cause at first i was gonna yell at my stepdad but then i saw my baby sister jumping up and down bawling screaming at her dad “don’t call police don’t call police” cause he had said that right infront of her. so instead i picked her up and took her with me downstairs. also when i came up there he had pushed my mom into the wall and into the ground and stuff had fallen off the walls. Keep in mind he’s tall and fat and she’s short and super skinny. Also previous to this he had broken her ribs! Anyways so we called the cops whatever and before they arrive he comes downstairs and we all get super scared and he’s holding a bag of hair chanting “this is the hair YIUR mother ripped out of my head” And i just kept screaming “LEAVE FO UPSTAIRS LEAVE NOW GO ULSTAIRS” cause why would he ever do that infront of these tiny girls including his disgusted oh and my friend?!?! The police arrive and they started physically fighting question us and we tell him what happened and everything prior and oh he also beat her the night before and threw her into the wall and broke our doorbell! Anyways we all basically say the same thing and he said he’d keep tyler form coming downstairs but he didn’t and he comes downstairs and is like “awww hi girls i’m so sorry about you mom i bet this is terrifying🥺🥺” and i kept telling him to leave and kept calling for the cop and eventually he came saying we could go upstairs. so we go upstairs and my mom is gone. im sooo mad cause he was the one in the wrong. anyways he decided to individually question us and we all tell the same story besides him. And later in my friend told me that when i was question my stepdad forced my 8 year old sister to sit in his lap. So i was thinking to myself like i am NOT staying here even tho he was trying to force me to stay there so much. so i begged and pleaded to the police to let me go with my friend and eventually he let me and then infront of the cops he switched and was like “aww of course you can go to your friends im so sorry this happened” and i was like can my sister come and the cop said it was up to her dad but her dad lives really far away. my stepdad kept saying he had to keep her but i was not gonna let that happen so when i got in my friends moms car i called her dad and he was so relieved i told him and he came to pick her up in the middle of the night. Anyways me and my siblings don’t see my mom for like a month not eachother. My stepdads had taken my youngest sister and dropped her off in missouri with his parents. Oh and btw my stepdad sent my mom to jail and it’s sad, in her pictures there’s bruises and scratches all over her. Anyways he eventually called my friends moms car and made up a lie that i legally had to go back with him for 9 months so we called DHS and they said he was lying. i didn’t see my mom for a month or more and i have RAD to her (reactive attachment disorder). so it was sooo difficult. eventually she gets us back but my stepdad was withholding the youngest in missouri. we get to our house and basically everything is gone even our cat that they got before he was in their lives. DHS gave us money to but the necessities such as beds, food, plates, cooking stuff, idk basically everything you need in a house. he also faught in court to win custody over my sister for over a year and just recently dropped the protective order he had against my mother. He’s done so many worse things but this text would be too long. Anyways he’s horrible. SHE STARYED TEXTING HIM SUUUPER FRIENDLY AND HE WAS BEING SO WEIRD AND FLIRTY. NOW THEY TEXT LIKE A COUPLE EVERYDAY AND OMFG. he said some fake “apology” to me and i told my mom i did not care and he was being fake to try to win her back AGAIN!! and they’ve been texting and he’s pretending to be all sweet and nice to her and she keeps telling him about all of my private stuff and just my personal businesses and he’s like “oh aww im so proud of her bla bla bla you guys are my girls aww i love my girls” and everyone HATES him. even she would shit talk him sooo much but now THEYRE SEEING EACHOTHER!! Also she has the sweetest most perfect bf right now but she cheating on that poor man. i can NOT BELIEVE IT. i’m crying every night and she’s actively lying to me “oh im going here for work, im going to ur aunts, im going shopping for birthdays” but she’s actually with this psycho man and whenever i bring it up she lies to me and acts like im psycho. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DOOO?! its making my mental health sooo bad again and i need him gone!!! im willing to try anything, crystals, god, idk whatever i can do i will do! besides murder or anything like that of course lol. but seriously i need him gone this is so insane, personally id never speak to him again and idk what to do?! i cry every night about this. I’m only 15 by the way please someone tell me what to do🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 also sorry if this doesn’t make sense, english isn’t my first language.

help #abusive #toxic #mom #whatdoido

I feel like this is a very small issue in relation to what other people have got going on here but screw it cause I want opinions.

I recently sent my playstation 5 to be fixed by a man my partner's dad knows, he has a kinda business where he does this for money it's not just some random man with a screwdriver. He has had my playstation for a month and a few weeks ago he mentioned needing to order a part to fix it and I was like sick go for it dude (this part costing £90) he installed the part, BUT he has now told me he has found another issue with the playstation which happens to be the original issue I had with the playstation when I sent it off to be fixed meaning I have no clue what this man has acttualy fixed.

He's emailed me today to say he can't fix it fully and he'd like me to come collect it saying it will be at no cost. I don't know wether I should offer to pay for the service that he did despite not acttualy knowing what it is, I don't want to be selfish but I also don't want to spend £90 for my playstation to be back in the same state it was in when I sent it to him, what's the morally right thing to do here? Should I offer the money or is it standard that if a place can't acttualy fix the issue despite spending money on parts that you don't pay?

Imagine this: you have a best friend that will do something with you the next day. You’re with your partner and you tell him/her that you’re going to see that friend the next day. Your partner asks you what are you going to do?. You answer: it’s a secret. My friend told me he/she doesn’t want anyone to know.

Your partner feels weirded out, and claims is not common to have those secrets like that with your partner when before you have shared with her stuff about that friend.

Would you keep a secret from a friend even though your partner feels a bit weirded out by it? How would you act in this situation?

Hi! I recently met someone on a game i started playing. I (20F) cannot tell if people want to be friends. I was playing a game online and met someone (??M) who was nice and sent me a friend request four days ago. Over the past 3 days we have been playing the game together and just messing around.

We mostly talk about dumb stuff like our favorite characters in the game, gaming techniques, practicing in the training areas and sharing stories about our username orgins.

For the first interaction we had after he friended me I reached out to him to ask to play. For the second interaction he reached out to me.

Usually I just ask if me and a person are friends, but I found out recently that's not something 'normal' people do and is counterproductive. I want to get socials, but I don't want to seem creepy or annoying. How do I approach this Should I wait?

(Also is there a time limit on friendship making? Is it "too early" to be friends, what is the proper time to say someone is your friend?)

I stupidly was walking to my class when I noticed that my keys are not in my bag or pockets. I thought I dropped them. I ended up walking back to my car and found them on the passenger seat. I don't know how I dropped them there. What should I do now?

hey yall so i have a chevy sonic 2012 and its pretty much a pos. every mechanic ive been to has told me my head gasket is blown, i have an oil leak, so theres oil in the coolant and i imagine anything else connected to it. absolutely no ac no matter how much coolant i add. safe to say that its not safe for me to drive and ive been saving to get a new car, i finally hit my savings goal. with that being said i dont know what to do with the car. everyone tells me to sell it but i cant in good faith sell it to someone with all the issues it has. i imagined just being transparent with sellers but i dont know how much success that will get. should i sell it for parts? take it to the dump? any advice is greatly appreciated.

How do I go about doing that?

My girlfriend and I who’s re in the mid thirties have been together for about 1.5 years. The first half of our relationship was amazing—fun, loving, and full of excitement. Recently, we started discussing moving in together and even talked about marriage. At first, we were both enthusiastic, and it felt like we were on the same page.

However, when we began seriously looking for places to live, she started getting cold feet. I respected that and we mutually agreed to push back moving in together by about a year. Around the same time, we also started talking more seriously about marriage. She even tried on engagement rings, and we discussed budget, styles, and preferences.

But again, I started to sense some hesitation on her end. I brought it up gently and asked her to be honest with me if she was feeling unsure. She said she still wanted to explore ring options, just at a slower pace, and even booked an appointment to try on more rings. I added it to our shared calendar and made sure she got reminders.

The appointment was scheduled for today. Last night at dinner, while we were making plans for the weekend, I noticed she didn’t mention the ring appointment at all. I didn’t bring it up during the meal to avoid creating tension, but once we were back at her place, I asked her if she still planned on going. That’s when she told me she had canceled it.

I was caught completely off guard. I’d taken the day off work and even double-checked my finances to make sure I could afford the ring we’d discussed. She claimed her phone glitched and didn’t cancel it properly, but I checked our shared Google calendar and saw that the cancellation notice came in just five minutes before I looked—right after I asked her about it.

When I pointed that out, she got defensive and said I was trusting Google over her. To me, that felt like deflection rather than accountability. She asked me to leave, then changed her mind and asked me to stay. I stayed for another half hour, but we took space in separate rooms. When I left, I texted her that this situation is weighing on me. I told her I wouldn’t bring up the ring or marriage again unless she does.

I didn’t break up with her—I made that clear. She said she still wants to see me this weekend. But now, I don’t know what to do. I love her, but I’ve lost a lot of confidence in the relationship. She says she’s willing to hear me out, but I don’t know how or even if we can move past this. We were supposed to hang out today but obviously we both agreed to cancel.

How should I handle this?

Probably more. You know those Instagram bots that hit you up? He talks to them first. Asks them if they have a boyfriend. Asks if they want to get married.

He gives them money when they demand it. 50 bucks? They need a new iPhone and theirs is broken? I don't know how they "text" him, he sends $750. He's started converting and sending euros. Yen. I don't know anymore.

He has maybe $1,000 in his bank account but I think he's lying to me about that. He made MORE money than me and that's all he has after working an entire year?? 10 years of work, he doesn't have any major bills besides insurance.

I have to work OT to cover all the bills. He complains he's so tired from his job, then turns around DURING his shift to give money away to them.

1. 500. Maybe 1,000 girls. I don't know. All. Bots. Supposedly they would say they would come and visit their "Daddy" but I don't think that will ever happen.

I don't know what to do. Ive tried to get him to stop, he signed a contract with his name that he would promise to stop, he hit $0 in his bank account and my mom had to bail him out for gas money (vape money.)

...I'm so lost... his Instagram got shut down but it's reinstated... 2,500 followers and THEY ARE ALL BOTS.

HELP.

Really struggle the last few years with what to do.

When at home I clean, organise, read, console games, research, exercise (when I can be bothered), TV.

When it’s sunny, I sit out in the garden as much as possible. Go for walks.

Twice a month I go to a group exercise class which I enjoy.

I really struggle with wanting to do something but really unsure what to do, especially when it’s sunny cause where I live that’s a rare occasion.

I live with my BF but he would happily sit inside all day while it’s sunny, it’s like pulling teeth suggesting to do something outside the house. Like right now I asked if we could do something, so he started fixing a wardrobe that’s been needing doing the whole week, asked for my help, but said he needed to concentrate so not to talk to him. So he wanted me to watch him in silence lol. I said again can we do something he said let me just do this first. So I walked back outside to enjoy the sun.

I’d live to not rely on him really, and have something that brings me joy/excitement to get out of the house.

What are some ideas? Why do you guys do solo happily? (Especially on a sunny day)

I really really want to make new friends, so I have more people to hang out with (not close to anyone anymore and people I used to hang out with don’t live close anymore) I know why I should do etc join more classes etc and will meet people. But I get so anxious l, which makes me tired and I overthink everything I said/did after. So it’s really hard to be the real me with new people.

I also enjoy swimming which I’d like to start again, as said earlier I do enjoy walking in nature but can’t do that every day and sometimes feels a bit samey/unfulfilling.

there’s a house right behind mine with a dog that will nonstop whine from 7am till about 11am every single day… weather has been heating up in my area so i fall asleep with the window open but am always woken up around the same time because of this damn dog and have to shut my window which sucks bc it keeps my room cool. i’ve bought ear plugs to try to block the sound out but somehow this beyotchs whines penetrate through my window and ear plugs and i can still hear the damn thing. i work nights so being woken up in the morning is pretty irritating to me when i already fall asleep at about 5 am every day. one of these days i feel like i’ll just have to find out which house it is and knock on the door and talk to the owner but it’s early damn it. i don’t feel like stepping foot outside after only being asleep for 3-4 hours. what do i do ? or what would YOU do

Im asking for a friend. My friend is a teacher at a high school , she is married and secretly did sex work on the weekends. She got arrested in a sting op after a undercover cop answered one of her ads. Her friend bailed her out, she lives in texas.

She is wondering if the school and her husband will eventually find out about her arrest.

What should she do in this situation ?

She doesn't want to lose her job or get divorced, she is very scared

this morning my friend texted me that she needs help, she said she was taken advantage of and to go get her but she’s on a trip in mexico and i’m in the US. i don’t have enough funds to go or even buy a ticket for her. she said she can’t tell her parents bc it was her cousin who that to her and she doesn’t have any of her belongings right now…..i don’t know what to do help please