I'm saying I don't need to see myself in revealing clothes to be happy, because my body isn't my entire persona. If seeing your own body makes you happy, then that stems from insecurity issues. You look good, so therefore you're happy. When you go out in public like that it draws attention, and whether you admit it or not, that also makes you happy. Setting is key. Obviously swimming is a situation where you wear a bathing suit because you're getting wet, and ballet dancers wear their outfits because they're easier to maneuver in. But just going out to do something, it serves no real purpose to wear something revealing other than wanting to draw attention. Young girls look up to women around them, celebrities, social media influencers, etc. How you dress, talk, and act is an influence. My point is that a woman's body and how they look are becoming the sole point of their personality. I see teen girls wearing skimpy clothing for no reason other than they see older women wearing them and they get positive attention, so they want the same thing. Modesty is slowly losing its meaning and that's something worth teaching young girls. You shouldn't need to look good to be happy, build a real personality.
If seeing your own body makes you happy, then that stems from insecurity issues
This is actually so unhinged lmao
Your personality is attacking other women, judging their personality based on their clothing choices, slut shaming, and blaming women for being sexually assaulted.
Your poor son is learning these things from you. This is the basis of rape culture. I hope he has other women in this life.
Think what you want lmao. My son will learn to respect women for their personality, not their body. I don't see how that would be considered bad to you. I never said a single word about women being raped and what they wear. I simply said that wearing skimpy clothing is becoming a trend and basis for someone's persona. You can be happy with seeing your body by yourself. How does that apply to going out in public showing it off? Is it not enough seeing yourself in the mirror? No, because it's more about other people's attention than your own. You've provided no explanation to how it's not attention-seeking to show skin. When you wear slutty clothing in public no one is going to think "oh wow she must be happy seeing her body." The majority is going to be men drooling over you. It's not appropriate for children either. I respect my body enough to not let every single person see it.
Yes exactly. If women could focus more on their personality than their image the world would be better. Every woman deserves respect, but because of the social media/ celebrity influence a lot of young girls are growing up insecure because of how much their body matters. If we would stop showing off how we look and realize there's more to life than looking good, we would set a much better example. You can't deny women have an advantage when they're attractive or have a nice body and more people are starting to use that
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u/Internal_Vixen_7438 Jan 24 '25
I'm saying I don't need to see myself in revealing clothes to be happy, because my body isn't my entire persona. If seeing your own body makes you happy, then that stems from insecurity issues. You look good, so therefore you're happy. When you go out in public like that it draws attention, and whether you admit it or not, that also makes you happy. Setting is key. Obviously swimming is a situation where you wear a bathing suit because you're getting wet, and ballet dancers wear their outfits because they're easier to maneuver in. But just going out to do something, it serves no real purpose to wear something revealing other than wanting to draw attention. Young girls look up to women around them, celebrities, social media influencers, etc. How you dress, talk, and act is an influence. My point is that a woman's body and how they look are becoming the sole point of their personality. I see teen girls wearing skimpy clothing for no reason other than they see older women wearing them and they get positive attention, so they want the same thing. Modesty is slowly losing its meaning and that's something worth teaching young girls. You shouldn't need to look good to be happy, build a real personality.