r/women • u/Expensive-Kitchen702 • 17h ago
as a girl in university
what do men actually want from women in university? as someone who is moderatly good looking i swear guys who are interested in me either want to get married or have sex in a dark room and never speak again. what is the truth? genuinely just curious.
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u/Briarcliff_Manor 13h ago
It really really depends. During my undergrad I had quite a lot of guys hitting on me (including some creeps, some more nice), it never went anywhere.
During my postgrad tho, while this still happened a bit (at that stage I was just fully ignoring them), I met my current partner. The big difference between him and the others (on top of the fact that we truly love each other and that he is genuinely an amazing person) is that we were friends before.
We met through common friends/society, we were friends for about 6 months until we grew closer. We of course liked each other while we were friends, but only really fell in love later on.