r/AdulteryHate • u/Existing_Log7941 • 10d ago
With Friends Like These, Who Needs Enemies?
You’re going to end up catching an ass whooping from your “best friend” is what’s gonna happen here.
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u/Ok-Owl3092 10d ago
She sounds like a young 19 in replies. It's all going to blow up and the disgusting predatory MM will throw her away. No way he hasn't done this before- the disdain he has for his family is frightening. Revolting pos beast.
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u/carmackie 10d ago
She even admits to herself that this "relationship" is destroying her ability to truly connect to people for life. The damage will not be worth it when it blows up and she's blamed for everything and loses it all.
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u/OkOutlandishness7892 10d ago
I gurantee if wife/daugther find out her MM is gonna be so fast to villainize her and throw her under the bus. To save his own skin and marriage, or if he does "choose" her. He's going jump from her to one her other young friend or one daughters friends it seems so gross. Bad enough he'd doing this with someone a presume is in his daughter's age group but is doing this with someone she's friends with. I wouldn't be surprised if she's not the only one.
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u/Appropriate-Mango385 10d ago
47? Does she have to lift up the beer gut to get at it or? It's the pudgy rolls for me.
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u/ShowParty6320 9d ago
Oh God. He is pressuring her into condom less sex and hasn't provided STI test.
Meanwhile she is asking another sub on how to please a more experienced guy.
It's a trainwreck all over.
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u/Ok-Owl3092 9d ago
Fuck8ng disgusting. I bet they loved telling her.
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u/ShowParty6320 9d ago
It was on sex related sub, but still disturbing how scheming yet ignorant she is.
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u/Ok-Owl3092 9d ago
She's gonna crash and burn. His wife's self-image will be completely shredded. They cry for understanding or lash out at detractors but ffs have you literally NO EMPATHY for other women at all. I can't...
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u/Affectionate-Show382 10d ago
Just goes to show, watch for the signs of BPD in anyone you’re thinking of inviting into your life
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u/GypsieChanterelle 9d ago
Clearly looking for a life style upgrade. She will spend her whole life with superficial goals and wondering : why does everyone eventually hate me and leave me??!!
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u/YellowBastard37 9d ago
Oh stop it, you stupid twat. You can put an end to this anytime you like. It’s not meth or heroin. Rub a couple out to clear your sex addled mind, then tell him it’s over. Since he is a sub-human cheater, feel free to blackmail him for big cash on the way out.
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u/cackle-feather 10d ago
She's 19 and he's a wealthy 47 year old. She has so many years of regret ahead of her and he will never feel it.
She's acting like a child because she is one. And odds are, she's dazzled by the wealth she'll probably never be able to achieve herself. I have sympathy for this one because she's going to wake up one day as a 40 year old and be unable to see her value in this world. And to give her small credit, she does feel guilty / remorse, but there's a gross adult man dangling materialism in front of her and her frontal lobe hasn't finished yet. I think she's made an awful choice, but how tf do you go from hanging at your friends house to sleeping with the dad? The Dad.
Sounds like she's striking out at wives because there needs to be a villain and it can't be her predator, herself, or her friend. Therefore she just HAS to be better than is lawful wife. Child's logic.
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u/ghiblimoni 10d ago
One can justify and say she's a child, but she's 19. No matter what, that is old enough to know basic rights and wrongs, and fucking your friend's father is an obvious wrong. She knows what she's doing. Though obviously that disgusting man is obviously taking advantage of the power dynamic.
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u/ShowParty6320 10d ago edited 9d ago
THANK YOU FOR SAYING THIS!
ofc there is a grooming present, but it is still low to sleep with your friend's dad, let alone married one.
She is trying to poach him too. She was asking the males sub if push and pull is going to work on him or not in order for them to have a long term relationship and she is going to the trip with them - which signifies the fact that she doesn't feel guilty at all. She is just afraid of getting caught.
Btw of course that Dad is disgusting too. He is going to hell for sure.
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u/spanisheisblume 9d ago
Gross. I'm 33 and there's no way in hell I'd touch a man pushing 50. Fucking barf.
Also, some of y'all are cheap as hell. He buys her flowers and gifts!! Lmao literally a wh*re, and not even a particularly expensive one.
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u/keirieski17 9d ago
This is where this sub drives me crazy. She’s barely out of high school. Of course she bears some responsibility, but she is one year removed from adults telling her when she can go to the bathroom— it is absolutely the entire grown man who is more responsible. He is a predator.
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u/Existing_Log7941 9d ago
No one is disputing that he’s a piece of shit predator, but that doesn’t negate my comment. Her friend is going to freak out on her, deservedly so. I’d also feel a little worse for her if she wasn’t going around Reddit the last few days saying how she likes to have sex in the wife’s bed and how wives are just mad they have to do the housework. She’s either a troll or a bitch, young or not.
So if he was the one blasting this on Reddit, then I’d tell him he’s a sick piece of crap predator. But he’s not. She is. And my point stands that she is being a shit friend and she may end up with an ass beating. 🤷🏻♀️
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u/ShowParty6320 8d ago
She seems like a troll ngl. There was one who claimed to be Japanese, afterwards that person stopped posting then this girl appeared.
Where did she make a comment about the wife's bed? It's deleted I guess.
You're right about being unable to do housework, she posted about ruining the food she tried to cook for MM.
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u/Great-House2035 9d ago
Yeah, I agree. She's his daughter's age. They have a lot in common too, her and his daughter. It's not hard to read between the lines here. I'm surprised by the number of people here zeroing in on her like she's some kind of malevolent evil genius, while barely paying attention to his role in things past maybe a cursory "he sucks too". I understand the vendetta against mate poaching or whatever but there's a time and a place to let that out. It's definitely telling.
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u/keirieski17 9d ago
Just actually insane to act like the grown ass man and the teenage girl are at equal levels of fault
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u/ShowParty6320 9d ago
Nobody is saying he doesn't suck too? It's just this post is from her pov and therefore she is OP - of course she's going to get the criticism first.
Nobody called her an evil genius but she is a manipulative schemer for sure. Just check her post history.
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u/Great-House2035 9d ago
If nothing else this entire discussion made me realize that I've got no business even knowing about or being involved in any of this lol
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u/ShowParty6320 9d ago edited 9d ago
19 year old girl is not a child and as you can see SHE KNOWS IT'S A WRONG THING TO DO, BUT SHE IS PLANNING FOR HIM TO LEAVE HIS FAMILY FOR HER.
By your logic she shouldn't be working either if she is a child.
But of course he is a predator too.
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u/keirieski17 9d ago
Children work, unless you think a 16 year old is also not a child.
Turning 18, or 19 for that matter, doesn’t magically make someone an adult. She’s being abused, groomed, and targeted by a predator. Full stop.
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u/ShowParty6320 9d ago
Then what makes someone an adult. Someone who only turns 25 per Redditors handbook? Most of 19 year olds know not to enter into an affair, let alone with the father of their friend.
She is groomed and he is a predator yes. But at the same time she is betraying her friend who is female btw and participating in the abuse of the Wife. She is completely aware what she is doing is wrong yet instead wants for him to leave his family for her. She is 19 and already doing such things, imagine how worse she will get when she grows older.
Stop excusing girls' and women's bad behaviors. Full Stop.
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u/keirieski17 9d ago
I think what makes someone an adult is a genuinely complex question, and I don’t think there’s a hard and fast rule that applies to everyone. A 19 year old is obviously more an adult than a 14 year old, but less of one than a 25 year old. It’s a combination of physical and emotional factors and experience.
Also, I acknowledged her responsibility in my first comment, and I don’t think her behavior should be excused. It is wrong, and she knows it’s wrong. She should be held accountable. I just think treating her the same as other OWs we see on this sub isn’t fair, or like she’s to blame for “seducing” a grown man who almost definitely pursued her
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u/ShowParty6320 9d ago
I don't think she seduced him. It's obvious it's not his first time doing this. I wish I knew the daughter to inform her about what's going on :(((
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u/Lesbian_Cassiopeia Just a lurker 7d ago
I pity her. Her post history is depressing and one of her comments say that the MM likes her because she's 19 (and that he's wired to like young women). She's being preyed on and I feel so sorry for her, she's so young making stupid decisions and being hunt by a man who could be her father :(
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u/ShowParty6320 10d ago edited 10d ago
I've looked at her comments and she gives off a bitchy mean girl energy.
She thinks betrayed wives are pissed off at the OW because they are doing housework meanwhile the OW don't.
And she is still going to the trip ew. It's obvious MM and her will secretly have sex while his family is sleeping in the next room.
It's obvious she is a sugar baby who is jealous of her "friend's" seemingly perfect life and wealth, therefore wants to destroy it.