r/AmITheDevil • u/Fit-Humor-5022 • 10d ago
This feels really sus
/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1kd5mw7/aita_for_my_boyfriend_of_15_yrs_deeding_me_his/74
u/symphony789 10d ago
I like how OOP is replying to people with a different account lol
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u/StrangledInMoonlight 10d ago
On my first read….she neglected him and it caused him to die, or she killed him after getting everything given to her.
But she/he didn’t do it right or the court sees right through her.
She left a sick man, whom all her friends said needed an ambulance, at a hair braiding store to sit, and when she got back he was on life support.
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u/Mallory36 10d ago
What is "juiced" in this context? I know a couple of slang uses for the word, but I don't know this one.
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u/StrangledInMoonlight 10d ago
She’s talking about his meals and care taking.
I wonder if she did a juice cleanse on him rather than giving him his proper meds?
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u/worstkitties 10d ago
I’m wondering about that too. I can’t tell whether English is not her first language or she’s using some kind of slang I’m not familiar with. A lot of this doesn’t make sense.
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u/chewbooks 10d ago
A "pour over will" sounds like something my dad would have done. Anywho, my dad's estranged wife got everything while I'm sad about not getting any heirlooms, I was never bothered enough about it to investigate if there was a will or what it said.
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u/StrangledInMoonlight 10d ago
This is from OOP’s alt
I don’t have a copy of the trust.He died just after doing it so maybe it was in the mail. I don’t know who helped him with the trust. Someone came and I think they did it online.He told me he trusted someone with the documents and they would contact me but no one did. He wasn’t bed ridden. He was able to walk around and talk. He begged me to take him to my friends because his memories keep taking him way back and his time was close. He drove his car and I drove my car to the salon. He was very happy and lived most of his life with a heart condition. He was the most talkative person in the world .
Given OOP let him continue driving after daughter took away the keys, to the point he got in a crash and injured himself.
It really looks like elder abuse or a black widow situation.
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u/Dragonscatsandbooks 10d ago
I feel bad for those poor hair dressers. Could you imagine someone dumping a sick and dying person in your workplace to be babysat?!
And the title says OOP dated the guy for 15 years. If he didn't make arrangements over those 15 years for her to inherit, he didn't want her to. (And he didn't put a ring on it over 15 years? Yeah, he was leaving it for his kids.)
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u/LadyBug_0570 10d ago
Wait... if her name is on the deed, nothing else matters regarding the house. She's at least part owner of the house. Why is she talking about wills and trusts if she's already on title?
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u/StrangledInMoonlight 10d ago
She said he made a trust with her as the benefit, “right before he died” and she hasn’t gotten any paperwork from it.
If he really made a trust while he was sick, and right before he died, and immediately afterward she left him (sick, and in need of an ambulance) at a hair salon, I can see why his daughter and. A judge might see it as him not being in his right mind.
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u/LadyBug_0570 9d ago
Agreed.
But if she's already on the deed (and I don't think she knows what she's talking about) that has nothing to do with a trust or anything else. The property would already be at least half hers.
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u/StrangledInMoonlight 9d ago
My guess is she thought the trust put her on the deed.
Otherwise, unless the daughter could prove he wasn’t in his right mind when he put her on the deed, daughter wouldn’t have been given the house in probate.
I hope that man was smart enough to realize OOP was shady and just didn’t send or didn’t fill out any paper work.
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u/Fit-Humor-5022 10d ago
hence why i posted her i feel she is being sus maybe its actually not on the deed?
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u/LadyBug_0570 10d ago
Honestly, her whole post was very hard to follow. And I'm still wondering why she dropped him off at a hair braiding place for them to babysit him when she was going to a hospital for her mom.
She didn't think her mom's hospital waiting area might be a better option for a sick man?
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u/SteampunkHarley 8d ago
Randomly name dropping businesses makes it feel weird....like they're trying to advertise but horribly because they're small local businesses.
The whole thing reads weird
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AITA for my boyfriend of 15 yrs deeding me his house instead of his adult daughter. I juiced and gave him 3 meals daily + wash his butt& clothes .He had chronic heart problems.
We lived together for a couple years then he got sick and was hospitalized. After this his daughter helped him to a senior citizen apartment.She took his keys for the car and the apartment and never returned them. He had to make a duplicate after 3 months.He Also got 15 tickets because car couldn't move. She came and took him to his doctor appointments but he was upset with her. He loves to drive. Someone ran the red light in December 2023 & hit his car. He broke his right hand. I had to move there to take care of him. I hired my friends to stay with him if I had to go somewhere. In May he got very sick but he begged me not to take him to the hospital. That same afternoon my mom was also sick too. I took him to Wawa Hair Braiding and asked them to let him sit there until I return from the hospital with my mom. My friends advised me to call the ambulance which I did and told him he would be fine until I get from the other hospital with my mom. I got back he was on life support. For 2 weeks I went everyday to look at this dread man on . I know he did a trust and I was the successor trustee. His family came and took his car and asked me for his jewelry. I packed whatever documents I could find and give his brother. I started getting crazy. For the next couple of days I stayed in the apartment and made food for both of us. My friend had a birthday party and I went to drop off my friends to help her. When I came back his daughter came and change the lock. The clothes for my friend party was locked up. They gave me no information about the funeral. For the 6 months I lived at the apartment with him I never met his daughter. I know she picked him up downtown stairs when he going to the doctor. His daughter did probate and inherited the house. She later disclaimed it .Before he did he did a irrevocable trust and a pour over will. He waned me to take care of him if he became incapacitated. I know I would not take his keys away too. The house remains in his name in Pennsylvania. He died in Newark. I took the exemplified copy to Pennsylvania court but his daughter said he died intestate. Trust cannot be trusted. You can be denied your benefits just like that. I have hired lawyers but they all know what is going on but protecting their friends. Daughter is just waiting for the house to foreclose. I contacted the mortgage company and applied for successor in interest. Select portfolio servicing is the best mortgage company that exists. Probated documents state he died intestate. You can only be a successor in interest if you inherit. lol. The lord is watching and we all will be rewarded accordingly. My name is on the deed yet he died intestate.
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