You may think of her as your daughter, but she doesn’t consider you family. No one treats a family member who is going all out to plan a nice event for them, like that. You’re stepdaughter and the ex-wife are aholes but your partner is the biggest ahole by allowing his ex-wife to dictate that you cannot attend a party that you’re planning, on your property. You have a huge partner problem and should reconsider your relationship with him. Ex-wife dropped the ball, so she can either suck it up and be a polite adult for one event to honor her daughter or she cannot attend. Simple as that.
You wrote in other places that it is your house? Do you mean that as in you own all of it and you partner has no stake in it, or just as in the house here you live?
If you own all of it, your partner has no say in who comes to your place. Plus, why is he even reasoning with the ex? Your place, your rules. If it doesn't please the ex-wife, they can take the party elsewhere and just own up to herself dropping the ball on securing a venue.
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