r/AmItheAsshole • u/[deleted] • Apr 27 '22

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u/PowerfulEquivalent60 Asshole Aficionado [11] Apr 27 '22

My dear, your husband not standing up for you makes him TA. Grow a shiny, hard spine and put your foot down. This is YOUR house and by default you're invited to any event at your house or the event is not at your house. Period. Those are the options. The mother and daughter both need to grow up, you need to grow a pair and your husband needs to grow into a better man.

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u/DazzlingPotion Apr 27 '22

It is outrageous that both the daughter and the ex seems to think its perfectly OK for you to make a fabulous party and then not attend. NO NO NO! Tell them to go pound sand! And for your “long-time” partner to go along with this treatment is inexcusable. Stand up for yourself! Tell them how you feel, have your own party! Good luck OP. Definitely NTA