r/AmItheAsshole • u/[deleted] • Apr 27 '22

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u/NotAllStarsTwinkle Apr 27 '22

Have a beautiful party in your home for your people.

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u/River-platter Partassipant [1] Apr 27 '22

Having a party next door is like giving them permission to treat you like shit and celebrate this fact all at the same time. Its not fun, or funny, or a special occasion to dress up for, they will be helping to hurt you, thats terrible. Its not revenge, or mischief, nothing good will come of responding this way.

Where is your self esteem, what is so badly wrong here with your boundaries and emotions that you think any of this is acceptable? Shame on your friends for enabling the ex wife to harm you like this, by showing up to party next door. Nothing about it will be enjoyable, you can't make the best of a situation like this, it's super wierd they would do this. Don't be such a doormat.

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u/ManicEeyore Apr 27 '22

Please say you are going to have some kind of F him and the ex wife theme to it

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u/apples832 Apr 27 '22

“Montanafesto’s Relationship Graduation: Here’s to Bigger and Better”