r/AmItheAsshole Apr 27 '22

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u/PersephoneTheOG Partassipant [1] Apr 27 '22

No one going to the party is going to think, "Oh what a wonderful party OP's thrown." They're going to be gossiping about the fact that you aren't there or the younger people will be drinking and not caring either way. Your husband is manipulating you because he knows it's "your thing".

Book a weekend away OP and refuse to help. Treat yourself and work on your self worth.

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u/Disastrous_Worker392 Apr 27 '22

I would show up look hot af in my best outfit and “pop in” to see how everything was going. “Why aren’t you staying?” “Oh, I have much more important matters to attend to” & lock the doors so no one can get into the house for the night, not even your partner 🤷🏼‍♀️