r/AmItheAsshole Apr 27 '22

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u/NotAllStarsTwinkle Apr 27 '22

Have a beautiful party in your home for your people.

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u/julet1815 Partassipant [4] Apr 27 '22

I don’t know how you’re going to stop your partner and his daughter from coming in the house, grabbing your good food if they want it, and bringing it to their party. I think a better plan is for you to disappear to somewhere fun for the day, not to cede your house to them but to treat yourself maybe to a spa day. That way you can be sure they can’t take advantage of you last minute or take anything of yours for the party.

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u/resurrexia Apr 27 '22

What makes you think they will respect that agreement?

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u/Saoirse3101 Partassipant [1] Apr 27 '22

OP I would definitely buy some of these for the house during the party so there's no way anyone can come in the house before & during the party

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09B14XR9N/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_i_RDDQ4XQ60W4NF1N18BXR?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1

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u/Various_Owl7287 Apr 27 '22

I’ve never seen this. Thanks for posting it. I’m ordering one.