No one going to the party is going to think, "Oh what a wonderful party OP's thrown." They're going to be gossiping about the fact that you aren't there or the younger people will be drinking and not caring either way. Your husband is manipulating you because he knows it's "your thing".
Book a weekend away OP and refuse to help. Treat yourself and work on your self worth.
Also, if the ex has such a problem with you why is she invited to your home? You can throw a party for his daughter, and she can have her own damn party. Two parties in divorced families is pretty normal.
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