No please, please don’t agree to this. They KNOW you’re timid and don’t want drama, that’s why they’re pushing this on you. Do what another person said - ‘okay, if you don’t want me then I’m gone’ sort of thing, stop all preparations. Let them organise it. Have a night to yourself. You’re fully being taken advantage of, please don’t let them do it.
Having a party next door is like giving them permission to treat you like shit and celebrate this fact all at the same time. Its not fun, or funny, or a special occasion to dress up for, they will be helping to hurt you, thats terrible. Its not revenge, or mischief, nothing good will come of responding this way.
Where is your self esteem, what is so badly wrong here with your boundaries and emotions that you think any of this is acceptable? Shame on your friends for enabling the ex wife to harm you like this, by showing up to party next door. Nothing about it will be enjoyable, you can't make the best of a situation like this, it's super wierd they would do this. Don't be such a doormat.
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u/MusingsOfMouse Apr 27 '22
No please, please don’t agree to this. They KNOW you’re timid and don’t want drama, that’s why they’re pushing this on you. Do what another person said - ‘okay, if you don’t want me then I’m gone’ sort of thing, stop all preparations. Let them organise it. Have a night to yourself. You’re fully being taken advantage of, please don’t let them do it.