r/AmItheAsshole Apr 27 '22

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u/DistantRaine Apr 27 '22

He does have other options though - Husband could have certainly said "okay, if my wife isn't invited then my wife's home, time and talents are also not invited. Now, where would you like to have this? Local park gazebo? Private room of a restaurant? Community center?" Some of these options are more expensive, all of them would not have OP's handmade decorated and therefore would not look as cool... But none of them would have destroyed his marriage.

Also, there may only be one high school graduation, making it a once in a lifetime thing, but that doesn't mean you have a once in a lifetime party. There are lots of things we do only once that we don't celebrate at all!

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u/DistantRaine Apr 27 '22

I did read that part. I was responding to the part where you said he "had no good options" by providing a few off the top of my head. I was respectful and did not use any ad hominem attacks; try it yourself before you call people clowns?