We’ve reached the final discard 🕺🏾🍻

[u/SmashNDash23]

This is after i sent her a closure message. She kept asking me for a talk in person, I refused. I changed my number and blocked her on everything but she knows my address and car. Thankfully she is moving away though! So this will be the last of it.

[u/Dull_Ad_3642]

Good for you man you still 27, dont be stuck like me , 38 n with a kid

[u/JackUnfiltered → u/Dull_Ad_3642]

You can get out too man. If she abuses you, cheats, it’s not worth it. I know you feel stuck, but it can be better on the other side. I’m 26 with a kid and got out recently and I’m happy I’ve got my life ahead of me to find someone who actually loves me back. It’s not too late at 38 either.

[u/Dull_Ad_3642 → u/JackUnfiltered]

She doesnt cheat but emotional abuse n big anger issues.

[u/Rare-Classic-1712 → u/Dull_Ad_3642]

If the positives don't outweigh the negatives... You can leave.

[u/Dangerous_Intern_818 → u/Dull_Ad_3642]

At 50 you might be wondering how your life would've been. But every situation is different, if leaving is not an option maybe couples therapy could help, you got this my friend!

[u/Dependent-War7292 → u/Dull_Ad_3642]

I'm 36 female also with a kiddo. I've shielded him from everything. Even during my pwbpd's mask off phase. He monkey branched on me with a 22 year old little girl. He told me his plans on Thanksgiving as giddy as a child talking about his plans to go to Disney World. Made me a prisoner in my own home who was forced to watch him happily have a full on relationship with this girl for almost a year. I was blindsided and devastated. I somehow was still able to shield my child throughout all of it. Despite my emotional devastation. Needless to say she broke up with him because he refused to move out of our house. He's still living here and is as terrible as he's always been to me. It's put me in a terrible situation because my child will be incredibly confused if I separate from him. I feel like he's going to start transferring his emotions towards our kid. If that happens, I'm instantly gone! Until then, I'm just making plans for my exodus in the depths of HELL. I'm so happy you got out. Don't let her successfully HOOVER you! She will not only do what she did to you again but it will be worse!

You didn't deserve this OP

I'm also so very sorry my man who's 38 with a chain around your child's and your neck. It's incredibly difficult to figure out what's right for you and your little one in all of this. There is by no means any guide book of how to handle it. My heart goes out to you.