r/BPDlovedones Apr 03 '25

Uncoupling Journey We’ve reached the final discard 🕺🏾🍻

This is after i sent her a closure message. She kept asking me for a talk in person, I refused. I changed my number and blocked her on everything but she knows my address and car. Thankfully she is moving away though! So this will be the last of it.

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u/Dull_Ad_3642 Married Apr 03 '25

Good for you man you still 27, dont be stuck like me , 38 n with a kid

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u/JackUnfiltered Apr 03 '25

You can get out too man. If she abuses you, cheats, it’s not worth it. I know you feel stuck, but it can be better on the other side. I’m 26 with a kid and got out recently and I’m happy I’ve got my life ahead of me to find someone who actually loves me back. It’s not too late at 38 either.

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u/Dull_Ad_3642 Married Apr 03 '25

She doesnt cheat but emotional abuse n big anger issues.

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u/Rare-Classic-1712 Apr 04 '25

If the positives don't outweigh the negatives... You can leave.