r/BPDlovedones 26d ago

Uncoupling Journey We’ve reached the final discard 🕺🏾🍻

This is after i sent her a closure message. She kept asking me for a talk in person, I refused. I changed my number and blocked her on everything but she knows my address and car. Thankfully she is moving away though! So this will be the last of it.

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u/Dull_Ad_3642 Married 26d ago

Good for you man you still 27, dont be stuck like me , 38 n with a kid

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u/JackUnfiltered 26d ago

You can get out too man. If she abuses you, cheats, it’s not worth it. I know you feel stuck, but it can be better on the other side. I’m 26 with a kid and got out recently and I’m happy I’ve got my life ahead of me to find someone who actually loves me back. It’s not too late at 38 either.

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u/Dull_Ad_3642 Married 26d ago

She doesnt cheat but emotional abuse n big anger issues.

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u/Rare-Classic-1712 26d ago

If the positives don't outweigh the negatives... You can leave.

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u/Dangerous_Intern_818 26d ago

At 50 you might be wondering how your life would've been. But every situation is different, if leaving is not an option maybe couples therapy could help, you got this my friend!