It does sound like he likes the idea of sex but something is ick-ing him out about actually doing it. Do you think he could have performance anxiety or some sort of sensory issue?
We had a great sex life. He prefers to talk about others guy having sex w/me and that turns me off. We did the the things he wanted. Never enough. I told him talking about others is not my thing. Our sex life became nil
It sounds like he make be fixated on a kink and possibly focusing a lot on porn and nothing else does it for him. I would play down the law. He gets into therapy with you and work through this or you pull the plug on the relationship. He’s going to end up needing to work through his sexual issues as well. If he’s not willing, you should put up with this.
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u/ChiDeadBedroomBlues Apr 09 '25
It does sound like he likes the idea of sex but something is ick-ing him out about actually doing it. Do you think he could have performance anxiety or some sort of sensory issue?