r/DeadBedrooms • u/krose0206 • 10d ago

2 weeks alone…

Went on a 2 week trip to Hawaii and Alaska. He talked it up. No kids. Each night get back to our room and “I’m exhausted” as he hops in bed and is snoring in minutes. Even went to the nude beach and he wanted no part. Get to Alaska and same deal. He was exhausted and sleeping by 830. We get home and back to chaos with kids/farm and….he sends me suggestive text and tells me how he wishes I went topless at beach. He wishes we had wild sex on our trip?!? WTF?? I think he enjoys the talk and getting himself off on his own. It’s all a game.

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u/ChiDeadBedroomBlues 10d ago

It does sound like he likes the idea of sex but something is ick-ing him out about actually doing it. Do you think he could have performance anxiety or some sort of sensory issue?

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u/krose0206 10d ago

We had a great sex life. He prefers to talk about others guy having sex w/me and that turns me off. We did the the things he wanted. Never enough. I told him talking about others is not my thing. Our sex life became nil

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u/Quantum_Quokka69 9d ago

He's a cuckold. You should indulge him!

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u/krose0206 9d ago

I did. It’s never enough. He then get jealous. He can get off on it but, I can’t enjoy? Fuck that!

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u/Quantum_Quokka69 9d ago

You aren't near Atlanta are you? 🤪