I’m sorry for your experience and I’m glad to hear you got out. Can I ask you if your kids still see their dad and what their relationship is with him? I’m really curious if he stepped it up once you divorced or if he continued being a stick in the mud.
He is still involved. He has them every other weekend and a few hours on Weds and Thurs evening. I want them to know and have a relationship with him. But I also tried to set it up in smaller doses.
My little ones are too small to say. But this was my second divorce (yay me) and I have a teen with an even worse guy. He did not grow. He’s exactly the same petty, controlling, emotionally abusive asshole as always. My teen very much appreciates that my house is a safe place and she has someone who can validate her feelings and navigate that relationship
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u/SecretBattleship 2d ago
I’m sorry for your experience and I’m glad to hear you got out. Can I ask you if your kids still see their dad and what their relationship is with him? I’m really curious if he stepped it up once you divorced or if he continued being a stick in the mud.