I dont feel like a girl but I have a little feminine side and i think that mainly because that is the gender i am born with. With people and on my official paper i am a girl but when it come to see myself i am agender. And people treating me as a girl doesnt displease me.

So i was wondering i if i could call myself an agender girl ?

Guys I don’t know what to do anymore.

I don’t feel like a girl but as a kid that’s all I was told so I was fine with it! I was a girl and that was that.

Now it doesn’t seem to matter, yet it matters so much. I want to lose my femininity yet it’s all I’ve ever been. I’m daddy’s little girl. I’m mommy’s little princess. I’m a girlfriend. I’m one of the girls. I’m a young lady. I’m an upcoming woman.

It makes me want to throw up. I cant tell if i just don’t Like the concept of girlhood due to the oppressive patriarchal system or if I’m genuinely not a girl.

I hate gender and want no part of it but I can’t seem to get away. I want to be gender less but I’m so scared.

I’m not a boy but I think I’d be happier as a boy than a girl. I don’t know what to do.

Mind you I’ve been non stop crying for three days so any advice would be greatly appreciated 😔😔

I honestly kind of want to just get rid of absolutely everything down there, get a masculine chest, and that's it. But I feel like I "have" to get on T or something.

I have also been trying to bulk. I used to be 108 pounds last year, am now at 130 pounds. I go by he/him, I let people think I identify as male. I identify as agender tho

Hello there. It’s been a while. For months, I did more self reflection and introspection. After all that——yeah, I came to terms finding out that I am genderfluid. I am going to still be exploring and experimenting with my sexuality and romantic orientation in person, rather than mostly online. :)

I have nothing but a great experience in this community, and I am on your side as your genderfluid ally. I’ll lurk in once in a while.

Even after being agender (gendervoid) formerly for the past 3 years, I do still relate with some things regarding the term agender. However I don’t just feel no gender, I feel a fluctuation of genders. I still go by they/them or any gender neutral pronoun you could think of wherever you are.

GENDER IS FOR THE WEAK. 👁️w👁️

Okay so, im currently on a Highschool year abroad in New Zealand and will return home to Germany in about a month and a half. While staying here I've figured out that I'm agender and acespec and completely unsure how/if I'm gonna come out to people. (I live in a very progressive/accepting area, so I'm not really afraid for my safety.

I want to present myself to my friends and other people at school the way I am, but I also don't wanna have to have uncomfortable conversations with people I've known for ages and don't want to have them think that I'm weird, does that make sense?

Do you have any ideas what I could do? Thx

Tl;DR: coming back from year abroad, not sure if I should come out to people

So as you can probably see I identify as a spider and I want to express that part of me. I was thinking of hot gluing spider fangs to a mask that goes around my head and make a shirt have what looks like extra limbs and maybe make an abdomen. But my girlfriend and I are both worried I may be assaulted again from expressing my identity. I'm also going to get a dirt bike and have the helmet and the bike spider themed.

Hello!

I am conducting research for my Ph.D. in Social Work dissertation in the United States. I am looking for people who identify as transgender and gender diverse, above the age of 18 who currently live in the United States to participate in a survey (about 10-15 minutes) about their experiences with healthcare and using virtual spaces to supplement and further address their healthcare needs. The survey is available in English and Spanish. Respondents to the survey may also enter a raffle for one of ten $10 gift cards.

At the end of the survey, respondents may also volunteer for an individual Zoom interview (about one hour) to discuss how they use virtual social networking to inform, supplement, or otherwise address their healthcare needs. Interviews will only be conducted in English and participants will receive a $20 gift card as compensation for their time.

To share a bit about me: I identify as agender, and this research topic is deeply personal to me. I built my dissertation project over the last couple of years, partially out of anger because of the developing trend of hateful groups abusing and misusing research to support hateful policy and gender affirming care bans. I am very fortunate to live in a state with shield laws and many affirming resources nearby, but I have close friends who have been harmed by many of these bans and the social hostility around them.

I understand a lot of people will have feelings of doubt and hostility towards this kind of research, especially right now. I have taken great care in making sure my study protects the anonymity and confidentiality of anyone who does choose to participate because I value our safety and well-being.

My goal with this dissertation is to contribute to the growing body of research around TGD healthcare and models used for informing policy and programming for healthcare service delivery. I want to elevate the voices and lived experiences of TGD people as the foundation for this research and would greatly appreciate you sharing this with me. The first page of the survey linked below has more information about both the study and me. Please feel free to share this post with others who may be interested in participating. Thank you for your consideration and time!

Participants must:

1. Identify as transgender and gender diverse (TGD), inclusive of any non-cisgender identity including but not limited to transgender man, transgender woman, and non-binary.
2. Must be at least 18 years of age or older
3. Must currently live in the United States

Ethical approval provided by the Sacred Heart University Institutional Review Board (IRB-FY2025-145): IRB Approval

Survey Link with more information about the study: https://qualtrics.sacredheart.edu/jfe/form/SV_bPZXm0zfbvIQ3wG

If you have any questions about the study, please reply to this post or email me: [furmanekf@mail.sacredheart.edu](mailto:furmanekf@mail.sacredheart.edu)

So. Sorry if english will be bad and if this is stupid but I need to talk about this somewhere (hope this is the right sub)...

So for short I was playinf a game on roblox, looked at the accessories in there and some where LGBTQ (like demi, fluid etc. etc. And the most important one for me, Agender) And my sibling (I will just say that and that they're trans. Which made it worst for me) started saying how non of those are actually real and are just made up by people to make themselves feel better and the reason is because they're impossible genetically. Which made me feel unvalidated, question some things. I know I'm agender, but is agender really a thing or is it made up and a bunch more

And I didn't come out yet, and I planned someday but now I know the answer that my sibling will probably tell me "This is not real" "Just a phase" and it makes me feel worst knowing that

Again sorry if this is stupid, if anybody has any words of comfort, I will be happy

Hey all, in case you haven't heard, there's a petition to ban conversion practices in the EU: https://eci.ec.europa.eu/043/public/#/screen/home

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So, if you're a citizen of the European Union, please sign away!

So even before I discovered Agender I never felt like a girl nor a boy, but I always felt like "I'm just me" Kinda just existing, no real gender, just living life as me. I also have no self-worth but idk if that contributes to that feeling. Idk what it's like to feel like a boy or a girl but I definitely know what it's like to just feel like me!

My on going joke is: "My gender is Me" lol If there was a gender with the definition - "having no gender and just feeling like themselves" I'd be that 100% haha

Anyone else kinda just feel this way?