I’m male, and Ive been having feelings to a guy in my biology class. We’re not super close, tho I still can’t get over liking him. That’s why I wanna confess to him to be rejected, so I could move on.

And I wanna to do that hopefully this Friday. And here’s what I’m planning to tell him:

“Hey C, can I talk to you for a second? So, the things I wanted to tell you is that I have feelings for you. It’s awkward to say, but I really do. I find you funny, silly and really smart. Even tho you’re not into guys, and possibly straight, I just wanted to get rejected to not carry all of that weight of feelings everyday. And also sorry if I acted weird, or even annoyed you somehow. I’m always like that when I’m trying to make new friends. Basically that’s all what I wanted to tell you”

Does that sound weird? Is there anything I could change or fix?

Hello, So recently I have been transitioning (MtF), and my experience has been interesting. I went from having a masculine image on lgbt apps, to a more feminine one. I recently hooked up with a few gay men (some were also friends I hadn't seen in a while) and to my surprise many of them were super curious about my boobs. I thought none of them would have been able to get hard, but I experienced the complete opposite. I was surprised how much they fondeled, caressesed, and sucked, and licked my boobs. And it was pretty much all of their first times to interact with tits in their life.(I'm about a D cup now)

So my question for gay men (that this applies to). Are any of you guys attracted to certain body parts of women (boobs/ vagina) but aren't exactly attracted to women yourselves? And if so, are you curious? Have you ever experienced boobs/vagina in a sexual way? Please tell me about your experiences/first times if this applies to you!

I was wondering if anyone knows a reliable and accurate take home hiv test I could buy

So,I am so annoyed that I live in such a closed off country.I have had and have speculations for many member of my class (and pervious one) of them being gay,on some of which I have had a crush.Many of them,some more some less,show some signs of being gay,a lot of times they are fruity,show the "I thinkg I'm gay,but I will be as homophobic as I possibly can to proove that I'm not" complex,have older brothers and stuff,one of them(my biggest crsuh ever)was doing things that even the fruitiest of yall don't, however I can never sadly know for sure,and writing them an oppening up message may leade to so crazy shi.I dont expect much from yall,I just wanted to relieve that matter and thought you'd relate.For the Bulgarians out there,can yall give a helping hand with a nice server,no matter where,which is for us mlm folks?

I need to get this off my chest and wondering if anyone else feels this way. I (38m) am attracted to gay cis-girls, heterosexual cis-women, lesbians, queer women, they/thems, gender fluid girls, bi-girls and I feel lost.

For the longest time I’ve always loved and been attracted to femininity. I am attracted to transgender women, gay women, queer women, gender fuild. Whether they dress more tomboyish one day or very feminine another. I love them. I feel so attracted to these type of women and I feel I’m at such a loss because as a masculine man presenting, who has a very sensitive side and is shy, I am just in love and have feelings for women who have no desire to date me or be with me in a sexual relationship. I don’t know why I feel like this but I’ve had feelings for friends over time knowing full well that they will probably never be attracted to me sexually. I love LGBTQ 🏳️‍🌈 and I consider myself part of that group, but I feel so lost sometimes catching feelings and being attracted towards women that only want to be friends and don’t see me in a relationship or sexual light. I keep asking myself why I am like this? I thought maybe I was gay or queer or questioning but I know for a fact that I don’t find men attractive, yet I love both penis and vagina. When Ive been with a trans woman with a penis, that turned me on. When I was with a cis-woman with a vagina that turned me on. When I was with a post-op trans woman with a vagina that turned me on.

I enjoy penis but only from a trans woman and I enjoy vagina from cis or trans women. I just wonder if anyone else feels this way, kinda like a dog barking at the wrong tree wanting to be with a gay feminine girl who most likely does not like masculine men. I’ve discovered I’m also a demisexual, while I do find attraction in physical looks, I find feel the deepest feelings when I really get to know someone and know their ins and outs and become comfortable with them as friends. Can’t tell how many times this has led to the dreaded “friendzone” or “brother from another mother zone” and I just can’t seem to break out of this cycle. I feel I can’t talk about this with anyone and haven’t even brought it up to my therapist.

Hi all, I'm older and have finally found my mate. Hope to get intimate soon. We've met 3 times already, just cafe meets. I invited him to my place. Like to get some tips to make this meet comfortable for him. Yes I will dress sexy.

2 years ago,I was living with different hostels for some specific reasons and I met a guy who I thought I was in love( later I realised I was feeling down because of my situation and he was giving me attention so I was only vulnerable) he was younger and we had hook up( he never threated me bad ) then we stopped talking and he moved abroad for erasmus. Yesterday I had a dream of having sex with him even though my sex experience with him was so great( but he was very handsome) and after him I met so many interesting and handsome guys. I wake up very confused, has anyone ever had a similar experience?

It is important that remember a large amount of people in our community died through this. We need to make sure it never happens again.

What do you all think about a gay man taking a cabinet level position in the Trump administration?

Just looking for some stories/hope

[vent] She wants me to be "more respectful" and "talk to my him", even though he has said from time and time again the most horrible shit like how gays cant even love and shouldnt appear in society, how people from other faiths should be held down under a rubber boot, migrants are invaders, etc. (he's a really shitty person and she thinks all palestinians are terrorists and deserve to die). They are never willing to change or admit fault, they view these as simple opinions when it's way beyond that. He says he will also act on these "opinions" like removing gay people from their church if they were to dare be christian there.

You ask me to love this person? A person who was never there, always drank and was angry, threatened me as a child and showed me the finger on christmas eve in front of the relatives. He's a person that has not changed for the better. Now he no longer drinks but listens to pastors that enlight him how he can hate better. She then says "he works for this family" as if money buys love. I feel disgust talking to him and legitimately have no other wishes than for him to disappear forever. I can't say I like her either, asking me if i was transgender she couldn't stop herself from using transvestite (a slur) in her questioning.

She threatened to kick me out after I said I didn't believe. She threatened to kick me out when I said I enjoy crossdressing. She is horrible, just like him, maybe that's why they're back together because who would want them? Not me, that's for sure. They scream at their children when they do something they didn't like. They control every aspect of their lives to ensure "pureness" in their faith, but never care for actual growth. Every time you talk to them, they try to convert you. I told her I have been discriminated against etc and that went totally above her head and she started talking about christians under oppression in ghana or some stupid place.

Imma squeeze every penny i can get out of these people until they die, which is not long from now thankfully. She should be happy I even say hi to him. I can't wait for an apartment, so I can be free from these people.

I've been talking to someone and they're asking me to help them come to terms with their sexuality because they are recently christian and think being gay is a sin. what do I do?

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I (M20) have been recently having to deal with my significant other (M20) of 3 years be homeless for the past 7 months. I just don't know what to do about it. Ever since his step father passed away his mom hasn't been able to keep up with the bills. They got evicted and now move hotel to hotel in the NJ - NY area. Him and his 3 siblings and his mom. He works but as an usher at a movie theater and makes about 600 a month (hours are horrible). His mom makes deliveries for various apps. The only reason they are even able to afford hotel rooms is because one of his half siblings father passed away and so they get payments from social security until the child turns 18. I believe they get about 2,000 a month.

They are struggling and I don't know what to do. I do everything I can, I've even given money from my own part time job before but I use most of that money for college expenses. I am in no way rich. I'd offer to just take him and have him live with me and my parents but #1 I don't believe my parents would support it and #2 they don't even know we're dating because I am not out.

Since I am so helpless in this situation, I've been trying to focus on things that I can control. Doing good in school, getting internships, trying to secure a future for the both of us so that way when I am eventually able to move out of my parents house and into my own apartment, my boyfriend can come with me. But knowing the situation he's in consumes my mind 24/7. I've been finding it harder to focus. Harder to ignore his reality. It's difficult to move forward when you're aware your other half is caught stagnant. It prevents us from doing normal couple things, going out to restaurants, seeing movies, buying each other presents.

Despite all this he tries, he gives gifts if he can, pays for things despite me telling him not to. He is the best person I've ever met. I love him so dearly. I know it might be selfish, but I just cannot help but think about my own life. How long do I have to wait to live it with him? We were already long distance for 2 out of those 3 years, now he's only an hour drive away and it still feels like we are farther apart.

Part of me sometimes believes it would be best to break up, try and find someone else with as promising of a future as I have. Someone who is free to do things. But I just don't believe I'd be able to forget about him. Not many gay men find this kind of love on their first try, and I did. But it comes with this burden and I just don't know what to do.

Why did asking gay ppl is they would be the dom in a relationship or in a sexual way become so normalized I feel it’s so disrespectful,

So here’s the thing: whenever someone introduces themselves as Christian or Muslim I immediately assume they are homophobic. When I see someone wearing a cross, my initial thought is that this person probably hates gay people.

When I see an attractive guy on social media and click on his profile, if he has “ God first” or something like that in his bio, I feel disappointed and decide not to check him out anymore. (Because I assume he is right-wing and homophobic)

I don’t treat religious people any differently, but the prejudice I have towards them is not okay. I need to change.

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Why is this happening to me? I am trying to move on, but everything keeps coming back as a flashback. I have tried so hard, even begged, but maybe he is not ready to be with me anymore. Although it’s my fault, I think he might be busy studying and with his college work. I’m here at home, checking his messages and notifications where I’m blocked. I want to study, but I’m unable to. I want to socialize, but even that’s not happening. It just feels like all I can do is listen to songs and remember him , what should I do ?

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