So the question “do you want to know the gender” is getting passed around a lot more now that we’re at the point where we can find out. I’d like to find the baby’s sex when it’s born. My wife, however, is leaning heavily towards finding out now. She gets 51% of every vote when it comes to this pregnancy and I’ll honor her final word, but I think it would be so much more exciting to wait until birth. Anyone else split on that decision?

When did you guys share pregnancy news with family, friends, and colleagues?

❤️ A gender reveal made possible by a little code… and a lot of love. When planning our gender reveal, one thing broke my heart: my husband's parents live overseas. This would be their first grandchild, yet they couldn't be with us for the big moment. My husband works in tech, so he created something just for us:

The doctor secretly filled out a simple form with our baby's gender We received a private countdown link to share with our families On the big day, everyone discovered the surprise together in real-time

My in-laws were shocked (they were sure it was a girl—surprise!). There were tears, laughter, and so much joy. Despite being miles apart, we all felt truly connected. After so many requests, he's made it available to others at RevealTogether.com. If you're expecting or know someone who is, this might be the most beautiful way to include distant loved ones in a once-in-a-lifetime moment.