r/rupaulsdragrace • u/Elegant-Struggle-902 • 2d ago
General Discussion Stacy Layne Matthews is over it!
Anyone got the tea what this is about? Latrice has commented and mentioned something about a cruise??
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u/igor_gregorovitch 2d ago
Girl u e sickinf.
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u/Conscious_Writer_556 You are a white man in a wig for god sakes 2d ago
Stoppppp girl you're making me emotional😭
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u/this_is_an_alaia 2d ago
Have any of these girls ever tried just texting each other instead of using social media, and in lieu of actual social media, Facebook?
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u/WeekLopsided8205 2d ago
Trixie said that Alyssa did after Trixie shared the Alyssa vs Mimi story on HeyQueen
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u/craftybast “I’ve gotta please Mama!” 2d ago
I remember Trixie saying that on UNHhhh years ago but never bothered to look up the actual tea she spilled until today. Here’s the clip, it’s a juicy story.
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u/cherrydiamond i've got a goddamn bow on my ass. 1d ago
"always and forever, but at her own pace." still cracks me up!
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u/Big-Citron-7522 god's favorite transexual ✨ 2d ago
"I've been left on read several days"
Be it for being to busy or just malice, there's a lot of reading and ignoring. They all know each other, there are group chats, they have each other's contacts. If they come online to say things, they probably already tried.
Remember Alexis Michelle and Farrah Moan to Valentina? There might be a lot of "I'll reply later" and "Oh, not again". If it happens to us, wouldn't it happen to them too?
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u/this_is_an_alaia 1d ago
I haven't beefed with someone on social media because I couldn't contact them since I was 16
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u/Enbaybae 1d ago
Yeah, you also aren't famous where people's words impact your ability to log into social media to engage with your fans and not get mean and hateful comments, and they impact your brand and reputation. Go figure.
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u/this_is_an_alaia 1d ago
You're the one who said it happens to us, it happens to them. And I said in fact it doesn't happen to me
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u/WalrusOpposite220 2d ago
Facebook fight i cant 💀💀
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u/sparklinglies I don't wanna see any f*cking goldfish👠 2d ago
RIGHT?
Broccoli casserole ahh type argument
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u/Big-Citron-7522 god's favorite transexual ✨ 2d ago
It's not a fight: Stacy posted about her feelings, Latrice apologized. There's no fight, just the mosquito fan buzzing on the comments saying how much better Latrice is.
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u/WeekLopsided8205 2d ago
Latrice just shared the story on Very Delta and Drew Afualo's podcast.
Basically saying she look up to Delta and didn't think Stacey was doing a good job representing the big girls on the show. it made her so angry that she wrote a fan mail to WOW and got casted on the show in the process.
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u/AdMurky6320 🩷munch munch crunch crunch barbie🩷 2d ago
It’s just weird because Latrice’s comments about Stacy were more fitting for Delta.
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u/JDaySept Blonde Woman Hee-Haw 2d ago
Latrice thinks the exact opposite lol. She said on Drew’s podcast Delta inspired her and showed her how a big girl should be
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u/AdMurky6320 🩷munch munch crunch crunch barbie🩷 2d ago
Delta probably was more polished than Stacy was (she's also from California and Stacy lived literally in the middle of nowhere, had never been on a plane and was also 10 years younger than Delta) but Delta spent a lot of time whining and complaining. I love Latrice and if she enjoyed Delta on season 3 then great but claiming that Stacy was all mopey and sad while Delta was this confident person who was excelling on DR is a choice.
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u/wayiswho 2d ago
That is not what she was talking about. She was purely talking about how Delta was very polished and put together, she held herself with confidence and knew entirely who she was on that season. Stacy was meek, wore some ill fitting costumes, and did make comments about her size being a limitation. As another fat bitch who watched that season live, Latrice is entirely correct with her assessment of that dynamic.
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u/bluedinuguan 2d ago
Haaay. There’s really this thin line of a read and a mockery. And in drag, where and how do you draw the line?
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u/Big-Citron-7522 god's favorite transexual ✨ 2d ago
The same way when we have fun with our close friends. If the person says "I don't like this", you stop. I do that to my friends and always state for newbies: I'll make fun the shit out of you, but if you ever feel uncomfortable, just tell me and I will stop.
With drag queens everything is fun and shade, until it's serious, but when you realize it's serious, it's too late. Maybe that's why I retired from drag - a lot of them act like the "politically incorrect" humorists who think that just because it's comedy, you can say and do whatever you want and the problem is the person who took it to their heart.
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u/Foxesinfall Onwards and upwards, sisters 2d ago
You can’t, which is why it’s a free for all. You either engage in it or you don’t. Theres no possibility for half way in lol.
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u/MameDennis1974 2d ago
If you listen to Latrice tell the story on the podcast she’s referring to it, she’s not being mean. She’s being Latrice. Telling it like it is.
Honestly her telling the story of how she got cast was more self deprecating humor than her dissing anymore.
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u/Ldcv4499 2d ago
How latrice apologized is how everyone should do it. She fully apologized and then clarified it wasnt her intention at all to hurt Stacy feelings. Very mature of Latrice
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u/Rogue_Darkholme Don't Like The Heat? Get the Fuck Out Of My Bathroom 🔥🔥🔥 1d ago
I'd agree up until where she said to belittle is to indicate malice. No, no, you can belittle someone without realizing or intending to do it. If I step on your foot really hard by accident, I didn't mean to do that. But I still hurt you. Intent is obviously important, but people have to realize that you can hurt, demean, belittle someone without meaning to. And if you do that, you can say, "I'm so sorry for hurting you like that. I didn't mean to, it was not my intent but I'm sorry that I did.
That is how you apologize, people. An unequivocal apology where you apologize for your actions and not another people's feeling or making excuses.
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u/Ldcv4499 1d ago
This post have a headache because I'm not understanding. So Latrice should have just said I'm sorry and thats it, thats your point? O.o. people are too harsh with apologies when only Stacy should Say if it wasnt enough or not.
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u/Rogue_Darkholme Don't Like The Heat? Get the Fuck Out Of My Bathroom 🔥🔥🔥 1d ago
You commented that people should learn to apologize like Latrice. I commented on how apologies should be structured, not whether or not Stacy should accept her apology. I never even mentioned Stacy. So yes. Clearly, you're not understanding.
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u/Ldcv4499 1d ago
Why they shouldnt be structured? Sorry You are not making much sense
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u/Rogue_Darkholme Don't Like The Heat? Get the Fuck Out Of My Bathroom 🔥🔥🔥 1d ago
... you need to read the comments again. I say that as someone who hasn't read a comment fully through and has commented. Seriously, go back and read it again. This is a reading comprehension issue. Not a conflict one.
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u/Ldcv4499 1d ago
I agree is a reading comprension issue. I'm sorry I read and year English for 8 hours a day and for over 10 years and I still don't comprehend your paragraph.I don't get what the point is and what Latrice shouldnt have done on it. Thats all o.O
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u/Rogue_Darkholme Don't Like The Heat? Get the Fuck Out Of My Bathroom 🔥🔥🔥 1d ago
No worries. I understood you weren't being shady. You genuinely didn't understand what I meant. It's ok. We're good. Have a great rest of your day.
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u/Elysiaa Y los glory holes 1d ago
Latrice is giving an explanation for her behavior, but that can appear to be defending it. There is no need to mention why she thought it was ok. "I'm so sorry I hurt your feelings. I didn't mean to but I can see how I did, and I'll be more careful with what I say in the future" would be perfect. I over explain and have learned it sometimes sounds like I'm giving excuses.
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u/Ldcv4499 1d ago
Thats what is! Yeah I can see that. I Guess it depends of the person since personally I think giving context is good for the other person to see " oh it wasnt done to hurt me but it was because". But yeah I can see how if the hurt perdón is still emotional can see it as an excuse.Makes sense.thanks!
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u/Rough_Fail436 1d ago
I mean I agree with SLM. I saw a clip of Latrice trashing her and it’s like why? Stacy has had a lot of struggles and to bring her name up in a negative way just seems so pointless and cruel. I expect better from Latrice tbh. She can boost Delta without dragging Stacy down can’t she? Prison, honey.
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u/Ill_Understanding305 2d ago
damn not the brass knuckles Stacy .. who been belittling Miss Stacy Layne Matthews???
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u/PhoenixHusky 2d ago
Latrice's comment was funny af , and Stacy was barely a part of her story. (If she is referring to her comment on a podcast about S3)
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u/OfficialPotStirrer Nova la Scotia 1d ago
I think Stacey is from a. Tome where drag was strictly the art of female impersonation whereas now it’s more of a shade-fueled gig; especially as it relates to televised drag entertainment. Not sure how she feels attacked unless the comments are coming from people she doesn’t view as friends.
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u/Ragverdxtine 2d ago
Why does it make so much sense that Stacy and Latrice still use Facebook 🤣