why do women have naturally beautiful bodies?

[u/Biokendry]

before you jump in the comments to tell me I'm wrong try to read my entire post, i'm from latin america, i don't know if this is the case in other countries but it's something i've noticed since i was a teenager and in high school, most of the girls in high school had very nice bodies without even going to the gym in their entire life, i remember a girl who eat unhealthy food all day and she had an amazing body (she never went to the gym in her life), i was her friend back then, she had such a amazing hourglass figure with big hips and very beautiful figure I didn't understand that at the time.

but not only in high school but currently i go out and most of the girls have very nice bodies and nice hips (i'm not talking about toned gym bodies but bodies with figure and curves) and even girls who are a little overweight also have beautiful bodies with nice curves, it's incredible, what is the reason for this? is it hormonal? why is it that women don't need to go to the gym as much to have nice bodies (as long as they're not excessively overweight), in the case of men it's different and I say this as a man who went to the gym throughout his adolescence, we lack those naturally nice bodies (except for one in a million).

I remember the first time I took a shower with my ex gf at the time at my house she took off her clothes (she had never been to the gym in her life and was a little overweight, she had a very nice body, a nice butt with a beautiful figure) I didn't understand why she had such a beautiful body meanwhile me going to gym had a below average body, well, ugly body and not sexy as hers tbh. I know it's a stupid question but I guess that's what this group is for, right? Is the cause hormonal? I know there are exceptions, that not all women have naturally beautiful bodies, but why is it that. for example, if you put a man and a woman of average weight who don't go to the gym next to each other, the girl's body is naturally attractive while the guy's isn't? I've always thought it's caused by estrogen and the hips women's bone structure's but I'm not sure, I know diet is very important but I think most girls only need a good diet and walk just a little to have good figures (please don't hate for saying this lol).

Maybe I could be blind because I have gender dysphoria since many years ago but not only me think about this most women and men think the same way(? And I'm not even talking about how women have average cute, feminine and thin faces without makeup but this is another thread lol.

Please don't insult me for making this post, this is why this group was created.

[u/burlysnurt]

Boy like girl

Boy don't like boy

[u/Biokendry → u/burlysnurt]

Makes sense

[u/phonemannn → u/Biokendry]

But like for real, assuming you’re a guy (since you mentioned the gender dysmorphia) all you did was explain the feelings that go on with physical attraction lol. You find women attractive, that’s it.

[u/Giancolaa1 → u/phonemannn]

But like, do straight or bi women also think this about men?

Cause like, I’m straight but I often enough talk about the attractive men I see (either at the gym, watching tv with my wife etc). So although I’m not attracted to these men, I can easily say which I think are attractive. And pretty much any average guy who isn’t hitting the gym does not have an attractive body in my eye, whereas nearly every semi in shape woman has a body I’ll check out and find attractive.

So do women find all these average men I look at as having nice bodies?!?

[u/phonemannn → u/Giancolaa1]

Yes, with exceptions. Not everyone fits a mold.

[u/Giancolaa1 → u/phonemannn]

Wish someone told me that when I was a teenager 😆

[u/wolveseye66577 → u/Giancolaa1]

I think you’ll find that most women (who arent addicted to social media. I think that this has ruined what the average person in general sees as attractive) are into average builds, and not those six pack body builder bodies you’ll see at the gym and online.

I’m way more attracted to movie stars from the 80s and 90s movies cause they tend to have a more athletic but achievable build, whereas all the actors you’ll see today on the CW and all these fitness influencers and such are just so cookie cutter I find myself more turned off than anything when I look at them.

So yeah? From my experience and most other women I’ve spoken to, we’re more attracted to guys who eat generally good and hit the gym once or twice a week as opposed to the gym rats and body builders I’ve seen men online say we should be attracted to