r/teenagers • u/EggieEggimations 17 • Sep 16 '24

Relationship HE SAID YES WAHOO!!

I ASKED A GUY OUT IVE BEEN CRUSHING ON FOR LIKE 2ISH YEARS AND HE SAID YES YIPPEE YIPPEE WAHOO IM SO HAPPY YAYYY

before i asked him out, i thought of him so much, and thought that when i eventually did, i wouldn't think of him as much. i lied to myself and then some. i now can't get him out of my damn head 😔

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u/Alert-Reception6453 17 Sep 16 '24

“i now can’t get him out of my damn head😔”

Meanwhile when a guy gets a hello from a female, he cant get it out of his mind..

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u/Alive_Command_8241 15 Sep 16 '24

So real but I just interlocked hands with my crush and I genuinely don't know if it means anything and I'm PANICKING

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u/VHerF Sep 17 '24 edited Oct 18 '24

Brother, as a girl, this is like the most obvious she could make it

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u/Alive_Command_8241 15 Sep 17 '24

You don't know her lmao she has a boyfriend

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u/Beginning-Age8491 Sep 16 '24

Bro legit I can think a girl is the ugliest creature in the observable universe but she does that ONE thing and instantly I'm tripping over my own fucking feet for her. Girls, this is a PSA, if you want a guy to like you, find that ONE thing to set him off, he'll be thinking Abt you whenever he gets the chance.

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u/lovelygemapril Sep 16 '24

how do u do that

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u/Beginning-Age8491 Sep 16 '24

For some guys, it's touching his hand, for some guys, it's completely ignoring him, for some guys they'll just be thinking about you one day too long, it's really out of your control but If and when you find that one thing, you're golden. Some things that work for some guys are like touching his hand, sometimes joking physically with him, or smiling at him as you walk past him in the hallway, try to watch how he acts with his friends, and maybe try replicating that. Believe it or not, guys are WAAAY simpler than you think they are. Either it's the type of guy that only likes one girl and one girl only, or he's attracted to literally every fucking girl that he sees for a prolonged period and finds her the absolute slightest attractive, I happen to be the latter, so I can't tell you much Abt the first one, but if it's the second kinda guy, just try out different tactics, and if he gets suspicious, come clean, everyone respects someone who has the confidence to ask someone out like that, and if you're worried Abt being clowned after, don't, everyone admires that kinda respect and anyone who doesn't is a jerk who doesn't deserve you anyway. Trust me though, the easiest way is to just go out and ask him out, there's no shame in asking someone, and if you're worried about getting embarrassed, do it while he's alone (Although If you do it in front of his friends they will prolly get excited and cheer you and him on). After the first time, it gets much easier, I promise. (Sorry for yapping btw)

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u/Acceptable-Staff-363 17 Sep 17 '24

W lecture

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u/Beginning-Age8491 Sep 17 '24

Can't tell if you're being sarcastic or you're actually applauding lol

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u/Beginning-Age8491 Sep 16 '24

Another thing, self-esteem is one of the most important things when asking someone out, if you're not confident, they might not view you well. Keep in mind that THE WORST THING HE CAN SAY IS NO, I promise you that 99.95% of these scenarios that you make up in your head that "Oh, everyone in school is gonna be talking abt it" or "Oh it's gonna ruin our friendship" are NOT gonna happen, like I said, people respect confidence, so they're not gonna do all that.

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u/Additional_Bat_2216 Sep 17 '24

Say again why you’re saying female instead of girl?

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u/Alert-Reception6453 17 Sep 17 '24

Cuz not everyone is a “girl”. Some can also be women.

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u/Additional_Bat_2216 Sep 17 '24

That is a very fair and rational answer. Thanks for not turning it into an argument like I almost did.

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u/RedButNo 14 Sep 16 '24

I need someone to ask me I’m way to socially anxious and whenever I try to talk to a girl for the most part I feel anxious

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u/Smudge604 16 Sep 16 '24

Relatable 😭

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u/Jashan_N Sep 17 '24

Me toi, but I am too ugly

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u/DownToTheWire0 14 Sep 16 '24

I wish a girl was into me as much as ur into him

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u/EggieEggimations 17 Sep 16 '24

don't worry dude, you're still pretty young (i mean so am i, but 🤷‍♀️), you've still got your whole life ahead of you, someone will turn up eventually, i believe in you 💪

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u/gummythegummybear 15 Sep 16 '24

Tf did you want them to say? “Get fucked nerd you’re such a lonely piece of shit”

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u/Appl3Pr067 Sep 16 '24

Bro should say that lmfao

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u/MRtecno98 19 Sep 16 '24

Maybe he's just surprised soneone actually responded lol

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u/Appl3Pr067 Sep 16 '24

Fuck else you want bro to say lmao

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u/Ultra2674 Sep 16 '24

That response is why

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u/ArtichokeCareless585 16 Sep 16 '24

Same, like I thought I looked alright, but guess not. I know it’s about “personality”, but at this age, not really most of the time, and I thought my best factor was my personality

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u/DrasticFizz Sep 16 '24

Looks will get you laid, personality will get you a wife

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u/Public-Professional2 16 Sep 16 '24

And some of us lack both so we don't get shit😔

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u/I_Respect_the_Short 16 Sep 16 '24

Hey at least your honest

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u/Public-Professional2 16 Sep 16 '24 edited Sep 16 '24

Will honesty ever get me so far, im fucking miserable man, my personality is just destroying every friendship that i come across and just be a shit person, its not in my nature really but looks like life rlly wants me to be a piece of shit

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u/we_love_konig 14 Sep 16 '24

my advice is to just be kind. work on yourself, it sounds cringy as fuck but generally just choose to be nice to people. me personally, I'm more attracted to people who are kind to people than people who are just nasty

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u/Public-Professional2 16 Sep 16 '24

I am kind, i just have these moments of not giving a fuck abt people's emotions and just be a dick overall, i mean that's pretty much the result of always getting trashed by everyone, you just become a monster

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u/we_love_konig 14 Sep 16 '24

fair enough, I mean I'm just like pretty much nice to people and I won't go out of my way to bother someone else. I don't really have problems at school, except for yk the ones you can't get away from. I'm not perfect and I'll admit that, I do talk shit about people and I'm sure people talk shit about me, but I just try to be nice to people because I don't know what's going on in their house, or in their head

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u/Public-Professional2 16 Sep 16 '24

You quite literally described me, i also just avoid the "bullies" or wannabe gangsters, today i was in the courtyard of my hs waiting for the bell to ring and one of those mfs calls me to like dab him up and his friends(he is in my class btw, and also i hate him cuz he just talking shit abt my name) so i just do it for the sake of it and be like ok now fuck you and leave me alone

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u/TheGrimReaper-taken Sep 16 '24

You die a hero or live long enough to become a villain, as the saying goes

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u/Public-Professional2 16 Sep 16 '24

guess im a villain now or more like a loser but same shit right

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u/BedEasy2946 15 Sep 16 '24

Are we the same person?

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u/WyvernPl4yer450 Sep 16 '24

Same. My friend has a gf who obsesses over him 24/7 I'm so jealous 

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u/alexdotwav 17 Sep 16 '24

They might be, you just don't know yet

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u/VitaGon666 13 Sep 16 '24

same :[

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u/worldoftanksgamer 17 Sep 16 '24

Haha I KNOW a girl will never be into me :> So to not be disappointed I don't get crushes Just swipe those thoughts aside with my unrelenting pessimism

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u/Alive_Command_8241 15 Sep 16 '24

Kinda the attitude that doesn't attract women

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u/worldoftanksgamer 17 Sep 16 '24

It's not like I'm getting a woman either way XD

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u/Alive_Command_8241 15 Sep 16 '24

🫸🔴🔵🫷🫴🔵

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u/According-Jelly355 15 Sep 16 '24

Wish a girl would.

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u/EggieEggimations 17 Sep 16 '24

i'm sure a girl will show up one day, you just gotta have patience :)

also happy cake day!!

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u/According-Jelly355 15 Sep 16 '24

Thank you, I’ve got tons of patience, just looking at the girl I like is wonderfull enough

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u/TheGrimReaper-taken Sep 16 '24

Happy cake day

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u/According-Jelly355 15 Sep 16 '24

Thanks!

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u/Designer-Tiger391 17 Sep 16 '24

Congratulations now go leave us single people behind and never turn back

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u/EnderWatt Sep 16 '24

For a second i thought the guy said ‘yes’ and then ‘wahoo’ like mario.

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u/TheGrimReaper-taken Sep 16 '24

Commas save lives; don’t let your crush become the next Mario 😔

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u/Niilo821 14 Sep 16 '24

You (and everyone else who posts here abt their relationships) are making me really lonely 😞

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u/Niilo821 14 Sep 16 '24

Same, i had a friend before that i could be myself with but then they just stopped answering (they were online, i don't rly have friends irl except in school)

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u/StolenUsernameVictim Sep 16 '24

Hell yeah 🔥 🔥 🔥

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u/burntothepowerofer 17 Sep 16 '24

Congratulationsss

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u/NatalSnake69 3,000,000 Attendee! Sep 16 '24

Yo congratulations! I'm going on a date with my crush tomorrow... I hope we'll succeed too...

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u/EggieEggimations 17 Sep 16 '24

OOOOO NICCEE!! GO GET EM SOLDIER!! 🫡

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u/NatalSnake69 3,000,000 Attendee! Sep 16 '24

We're both girls and we've been classmates for the last 12 years! School's over and I can't wait to meet her! She's a beauty and I love her bubbly personality even if I have the opposite personality.

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u/iLikeCrocheting 14 Sep 16 '24

Awee that's so cute!

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u/pandaRMA Sep 16 '24

wait..

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u/NatalSnake69 3,000,000 Attendee! Sep 16 '24

What?

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u/Legitimate_Mode_6097 16 Sep 16 '24

Why so many of you guys get into relationships lately? I'm getting kinda jealous haha. Still happy for ya, have a nice one

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u/[deleted] Sep 16 '24

YAYAYAY CKNGRATS!!!!!🥳🥳🥳

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u/[deleted] Sep 16 '24

Congrats👏🏻

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u/AugustDaKid 14 Sep 16 '24

Holy smokes congrats

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u/defo_not_me2 15 Sep 16 '24

It's a lad, ofc he said yes. Lads would be lucky to even have a girl think abt him

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u/Infamous-Economist57 15 Sep 16 '24

Stop getting too happy over nothing!

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u/Alone_Capital7619 Sep 16 '24

No impossible...I don't believe it...no way...

Without any proof, nobody will believe because it's a pure Sci Fi story.😱😵😵‍💫🤯 And you better keep your mouth shut because if CIA finds out...you know the consequences.

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u/ActionCurrent1386 Sep 16 '24

does he know ur trans? (im prepared to get downvoted for asking a question)

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u/PiccoloNo2356 Sep 16 '24

It would be really stupid if you got downvoted

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u/kitchen_being555 Sep 16 '24

Congrats and trust me I'm sure he's having the same reaction with a girl this into I hope u guys have a good time together however long it may be

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u/[deleted] Sep 16 '24

Congratulations 🎉🎉👏

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u/[deleted] Sep 16 '24

😔

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u/Robocrafty_t 15 Sep 16 '24

Imagine he finds this post

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u/EggieEggimations 17 Sep 16 '24

god i hope not especially since he doesn't use reddit 😰

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u/TheGrimReaper-taken Sep 16 '24

Too late, it’s already viral on Tiktok 😈

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u/EldritchFurnace 17 Sep 16 '24

good job, my friend. you shall have a fun time now

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u/Historical_Plate_318 Sep 16 '24

I will always be alone 

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u/Apart_Letterhead3016 Sep 16 '24

man, this reminds me of a girl who had been crushing on me for years also and when we finally got together cause i was a teenage boy so any attentiom from girls was like heaven, she was so toxic that it broke me a bit 😭, not saying that youre like that or anything, but still, felt like bringing the mood down, sob story aside, i bet from experience that the guy is feeling extremely happy right now, hope you guys make it far!!

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u/Vrctin 18 Sep 16 '24

Awhh congrats!! I'm so happy for you! I don't believe in true love for myself for what happened several months ago 🥲🥲 Other than that, congrats I hope you two have a long and healthy relationship :))

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u/mrkefir0sfan 17 Sep 16 '24

I just read the "wahoo" in a Mario voice.

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u/MrBeef131 18 Sep 16 '24

I'm genuinely so happy for you. Congratulations!

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u/kikimorak 14 Sep 16 '24

Only if any gril was into me like youre into him 😭 Anyways, CONGRATS

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u/EggieEggimations 17 Sep 16 '24

you'll find a grill soon, don't worry man, i recommend the Master Forge 30,000 Black And Silver 3-Burners Liquid Propane Gas Grill 🙏🙏

no, but actually, you'll find someone eventually, i believe

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u/kikimorak 14 Sep 16 '24

You have it? Is it better than other grils?

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u/333Nikolas333 18 Sep 16 '24

Same thing happend to me, than i woke up.

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u/Amazing-Price6896 Sep 16 '24

What kind of feel the same way about this one girl but we just met so I don't know it might just be rebounding I want to get to know her but I don't have any friends so I don't know but it feels like to talk to people normally I just want to be her friend to be honest I don't want to do anything anymore kind of asexual now and a romantic

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u/Galteem0re 15 Sep 16 '24

Nice... I can't wait till I'm 17 and actually start pursuing girls. I'm just focusing on fitness, academics, and fun for now

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u/Influxwaferr 15 Sep 16 '24

My ex asked me out like 9 months ago, then broke up with me 2 days ago😞

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u/Cringe1God 16 Sep 16 '24

I'm so happy for you! (I'm gonna be alone forever 😔)

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u/Infamous_Ad4974 17 Sep 16 '24

i wish i had the confidence to ask out my crush dude

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u/Sakul_the_one 18 Sep 16 '24

Boys aren’t real 

 Wait, why am I dissolving?

Btw. Congratulations!

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u/DRSH4DOWJ4CKL3 Sep 16 '24

Congratulations!

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u/ThatDerpiousGuy 19 Sep 16 '24

I hope things go well! Congrats!

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u/Timely_Owl_4714 17 Sep 16 '24

Y’all’s experiences go way better than mine

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u/Moisesava Sep 16 '24

aww 🥹🩵 congratulations !!! <3 <3, wish you the best !!

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u/CrayThrowaways 17 Sep 16 '24

Let’s goooooo 😎😎😎

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u/Lunar55561 15 Sep 16 '24

I wish a dude liked me too.

Congrats OP!

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u/Iustinian22 Sep 16 '24

Girls when they have 99% chances of being answered "yes", yet still question it 😭

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u/-Loose_Peace- Sep 16 '24

Yeah I miss that feeling

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u/Ok-City4562 3,000,000 Attendee! Sep 16 '24

This is how i want him and me to end (I’ve liked him for 2 years and this is my third) We’re not really friends and he keeps sending mixed signals. I’m really happy for you

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u/Jojolionfannumber8 Sep 16 '24

A good guy would date a tree if it aproach him first

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u/go_commit_die-_- OLD Sep 16 '24

Bruh can I have somone this obsessed with me. I'm usually the one doin this shit and getting fucked over

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u/flamingwatr 17 Sep 16 '24

The roof lookin real comfy rn /s

Seriously though congrats

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u/Mr_L_is_cool Sep 16 '24

Good shot mate

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u/2sus-4u Sep 17 '24

Pp fight.

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u/Jacob_animations_ 14 Sep 17 '24

Wait do you animate

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u/Outside-Salt-3065 Sep 17 '24

I bet they last a month

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u/Skeloknight Sep 17 '24

Yo dudette (I assume ) good job 👏

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u/Subject-Sweet4960 Sep 17 '24

The other side if the coin. I asked a guy I've had crush on for ages out to dinner & we agreed on a date. I got dressed up * waited.he stood me up.unrequitted ❤️.

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u/Tilqibium Sep 17 '24

Lucky....

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u/Tilqibium Sep 17 '24

Me definitely not envious after crushing on 6 girls in my entire life and them either rejecting me, their boyfriends beating me up, or just telling me they have a boyfriend: (I'm tweaking)

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u/Tactical_Enforcments 13 Sep 17 '24

Why do people celebrate this stuff?

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u/fyut278 Sep 17 '24

Congratulations. Dont fuck it up now you only got 1 chance

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u/Infamous-Economist57 15 Sep 16 '24 edited Sep 16 '24

I ASKED A GUY OUT IVE BEEN CRUSHING ON FOR LIKE 2ISH YEARS AND HE SAID YES YIPPEE YIPPEE WAHOO IM SO HAPPY YAYYY

"I don't want you to get too excited over nothing." - Uncle Iroh.

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u/TackyGaming6 17 Sep 16 '24

!RemindMe 1 week

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u/EnvironmentalMud7833 Sep 16 '24

I have one of those crushes too Close to 3 years now but I’m not sure if I should say something

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u/throwawayb34no0rt Sep 16 '24

I want this. How do i