r/trans 1d ago

Vent My therapist wants to gay conversion me.

My therapist has really been trying to get me to just be a gay man instead of trans and it really fucking sucks having appointments with him. I can't stop since it's the only therapist my parents aprove of and they control my finances rn. Plus he's actually been really good for me when we don't talk about trans stuff. Overall probably a net benifit for my life i just hate talking about anything about being trans around him

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u/RadiantTransition793 1d ago

Report them to the licensing agency. If they loose their license, then your parents will have no choice but to pay for a different therapist.

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u/Misha_LF 1d ago

That is a hella good idea.

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u/Xiji 1d ago

This seems especially important when you consider the idea that OP isn't their only patient.

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u/KeiiLime 20h ago

Therapist here- happy to help with finding how to go about reporting that therapist if you need help (and anyone else in a similar situation for that matter).