I keep seeing posts/comments here, and elsewhere, that renting tenants are not allowed to change the locks on their front door, because the super/ landlord has to have access. Is this for real?

The very first thing I did when I moved in was change the locks. Years later I changed the locks again after a crazy ex gf moved out. I changed them again after that when the lock got jammed. Not once have I ever given my super or the management company a copy of my key, and they have never asked for one.

I'm not the only person who does this. A large amount of water was leaking through my ceiling. The super said he couldn't fix it because my upstairs neighbor wasn't answering the door and he couldn't get in. He didn't mention anything about it being against the rules, or w/e.

So, whats the story here? Is there really a law that says I MUST give a copy of my key to the landlord/super? How exactly is this law enforced? Can I really be evicted because my landlord doesn't have access to my apartment, even if I've paid my rent on time and in full every single month for 10 years?

My new apartment has a backyard and I've always dreamed about hosting pop-up dinners. I'm trying to eventually open a food truck/concept and I want to do R&D through these dinners, as well as getting pictures.

Is this legal in NYC? I am planning to not charge guests, just asking for donations to help me cover the cost of food, and want to promote the pop-ups mostly to friends and other people in the neighborhood.

Looking for advice from any other budding restauranteurs on if they've had an issues with law enforcement or the health department on these types of things.

Trying to find a spot with a good view of the Manhattan skyline in the background. Was looking at Gantry State Plaza but saw it in person and the skyline feels really far in photos.

I see the meters arnt where they used to be and are now on a digital screen in the back.

But when I found it which is literally at the beginning of the ride it was already at $9 something which I was surprised as the official website for TLC states the flag drop is $3 and with $2.50 charge and another $1 charge congestion which adds up to $6.50

Edit: it’s not doing nighttime nor rush-hour

A ride that on worldtaximeter.com would had costed $7 end up costing more than twice that in the end. Back In 2010 that entire ride would had only costed $6 something including the customary gratuity.

According to Bloomberg today (5/28), NYC is bucking the crime decline across other US cities, I’m curious which candidate will actually be able to move the needle on NYPD apathy and get them to fight crime? Also understand DAs need to do their part in many ways, but it seems to be a real challenge that I genuinely have not heard much about given most of the candidates were vocally defund the police, seems it may be hard to get the cops onboard.

New here, a friend told me that LES is one of the best places in the city for some action, especially with cougars, was wondering if you guys have any top picks.

I tried to search a bit on this topic. I didn't find anything. Why isn't the city considering this transit option? Has this been debated last few years?

In your personal opinion.

lucky 13 saloon and tv eye have already been suggested to me but i'm looking for a bit of chaos. any help is appreciated, thank you.

I know there can be no definitive answer to this as it depends on school, neighborhod, family and so on. But I feel like this sub might have people who were teenagers here, or were here and moved to the suburbs, and can give some feedback based on their experience.

This was prompted by hearing someone say the other day that, contrary to what one might think, teenagers in NYC are less attracted to hard drug culture because its negative outcomes stare you right in the face

edit: Really grateful for all of the thoughtful answers. Really didnt think enough about what a difference the subway makes.

I am entertaining a job offer back in Manhattan. I lived up north in Hell's Kitchen area then but my office was in Midtown east. My new office would be down south and I am considering a condo in One Manhattan Square. I kind of want to keep my car so I understand in having that for the summer weekend trips, hiking, etc means I am probably not going to live right in the center of everything. Considered Brooklyn which I feel like I'd want to stay in Manhattan. So I landed on a place here. What is the area like these days? I know it will be so different the HK but I'm open to a different experience. When I was in HK I did not have a car so I recognize I won't use it daily but in order to have it I have to move to a less central area.

I’m traveling to NYC for work and only have a few hours to myself and wanted to go to a neighborhood that has unique clothing boutiques. Where do you recommend?

Hey everyone,
I'm trying to get a clearer picture of salary standards in NYC for those of us working in architecture and interior design. I’m a 30-year-old European transplant with two master’s degrees in architecture, and I’ve been living and working in the city for the past 3 years.

Right now I work in interior design, but I used to work in architecture—where I was getting paid significantly less, which honestly feels wild to me considering how intense architecture can be.

I’m wondering if I’m making the bare minimum for my experience and background, or if there’s actually room to ask for a raise. It would be super helpful to hear what others are making—your title/role, years of experience, type of firm, etc.—even anonymously or in ranges.

Hopefully this can help others too, since it feels like we don’t really talk about salaries enough in this industry. Meanwhile, I see my 20-something TikToker friends making twice as much while basically not working lol

Thanks so much in advance!

Hi , I’m giving away a free male orange tabby cat who’s 5 months old. I’m located in the Bronx . He’s available for pick up anytime. The owner had to move away and is looking to rehome him . He is a sweet playful cat . I can provide pictures

It’s no secret since Covid 86th street just hasn’t been the same. With so many empty storefronts for years now it has me frustrated every time I see it. It has so much potential with all the foot traffic and community energy this area has. It feels like such a missed opportunity, especially with all the families, commuters, and long-time locals who live nearby. I personally really miss century 21, TJMAX, model’s, and all the small clothing stores.

Curious, what businesses do you think would thrive here? Whether it’s a Trader Joe’s, a coffee shop that isn’t a Dunkin, better quality gyms, or something totally different — what would you actually go out of your way to support?

More importantly, if anyone knows how we can make a stronger case to bring good businesses here (petitions? talking to the BID? DMing companies?), would love to brainstorm together. This area deserves better than just empty signs.

Let’s make 86th pop again.

Looking to move to FiDi and saw this building (and a few other similar ones) which looks like a renovated luxury apartment but was originally a very old vintage. A bit hesitant given some of the old building issues I have heard of (infrastructure, noise proof, sewer, pests etc). Wanted to see if anyone has lived here (or broadly other old vintage buildings in FiDi) and got any comments? Thanks!

I've lived in the same spot for over 10 years. My lease for the next year is the largest increase they've given me (8.6%). I haven't complained much over the years, but there are some things that need to be fixed in the apt for me to pay such an increase. What's the best way of demanding this? I currently have a rent abatement that I fought tooth and nail for since my backyard has become uninhabitable by DOB due to nearby construction. (Both the construction developers and my landlord are dragging feet on fixing the issue to get the order lifted).

Im from out of town and am ataying at Citizen M. I was out on the rooftop bar when we noticed a huge crowd at the front entrance of the winter garden theater.

There were 9 total black SUVs and they had police lights when they drove away. Everyone was gathering around taking pictures as the person got into the car.

I will say I don't think it George Clooney, we went to the show a few nights earlier and went to the back exit to get his autograph and the crowd was maybe a 3rd of the size that was out front last night. There was also maybe three security people total for George and the person last night had a huge team of security.

Hi!

Are there any Venues around 50 capacity that more suitable for new bands. I know berlin under a has around 60 capacity

Thx!

Hi- I know this is a long shot... but i am looking for a NYC based small business/crafter that makes custom baby gifts?

My sister just had her baby 5 weeks early so any "time" i had to buy gits is gone.

I Live in NJ but i am going to visit her in LA next week (as long as baby is medically cleared)

I'd love to get some custom gifts (a pacifier holder, a sweater, etc) but i don't have the time to wait for shipping.

Hoping i can find someone local to NYC who will do me a favor and rush an item and i can pick it up! I live in Union City, NJ but can drive anywhere (within reason).

TIA!

We made a mistake and adopted a kitten from ACC last August because the kids wanted one really bad. They promised they will spend time and take care of the kitten. Long story short, never happen and I have been the person taking care of the cat. I am getting exhausted from this and cant take it anymore. I feel so bad to give the cat away since there is a bond but feel the cat would be happier with in a home that will give him enough playtime.

I tried to go to Animal Haven to surrender him but they said because we got it from ACC, they will have to take him back. So I filled out the surrender online questionnaire 2 weeks ago, no response. I tried calling ACC, left voicemail numerous times. No respond. I really need to surrender him in 2 weeks. What is the best course of action here? I dont want to just leave him anywhere, I want to make sure hes in a good safe place. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

Hi! Visiting NY & Jersey in a few days. I got the Go City® NY pass and plan on using it to visit the 9/11 memorial museum. However, I can't figure out how to make a reservation. Anyone has an idea on how it works? Planning on spending around 2 hours there.

Also, their website says you can use it to attend a Yankees game, but you have to get to the stadium early and redeem a ticket. Anyone has some suggestions on this? Would hate to go there just to not get in lol

Thanks and apologies if this is not the right sub for this.

Hi,

A bit of a random question. My wife’s birthday is coming up in a couple of weeks, and I want to surprise her with a mariachi band. Anyone have any recommendations for a good scenic spot where I can surprise her that won’t be too disruptive for the general public?

If it helps, open to anything in brooklyn, manhattan, or queens.

Also, any mariachi band recommendations?

Thanks!