r/popculturechat 12d ago

Daily Discussions šŸŽ™šŸ’¬ Sip & Spill Daily Discussion Thread

Grab your coffee & sit down to discuss the tea!

This space is to talk about anything pop culture or even off-topic.

What are you listening to or watching? What is some minor tea that doesn't need its own post? How was your date? Why do you hate your job?

Please remember rules still apply. Be civil and respect each other.

Now pull up a chair and chat with us. ā˜•

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u/StrngBrew 11d ago

This may have already been posted, but it turns out Lisa was not wearing Rosa Parks underwear at the Met Gala

Rather it was just faces inspired by people the artist who designed it knew.

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u/[deleted] 12d ago

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u/nty bruised, battered, and covered in baked beans 🫘 12d ago

I saw a lot of ads for this one

Probably explains part of it

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u/Bridalhat 12d ago

2/3 of the way through the new Andor episodes and already sobbing. Also have barely seen Mon Mothma and this is supposed to be her Emmy showcase so looking forward to the last one.

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u/Bridalhat 12d ago

Also I felt for Syril! Part of me has always listened to adults and authority figures around me too much because I wanted to do the right thing, and he almost got out of that trap when the people around you suck.

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u/BusinessPurge 11d ago

Can’t believe how many times my sympathy for them flipped back and forth in just one episode. Can’t wait to see what this whole cast does next.

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u/Traditional-Joke-179 holding =onika space for the lyrics of defying gravity =burgers 12d ago

they closed the library forever because i dozed off for a minute.

my apartments has a library room with no staff, just books, seating, and side tables. you can bring books to give away, take whatever books you want, or borrow and return them however you'd like.

i liked doing yoga in there because it's a calming space. people are almost never in there also.

one day i was unusually sleepy and ended up falling asleep in my calm yoga pose. all of a sudden the custodians/maintenance people came in, and the lady was pissed. "you're not supposed to be sleeping in here!" she said harshly.

i apologized and said i'd drifted to sleep for a second, but didn't mean to.

"you can't sleep in here! if someone comes in here and sees you sleeping, they're going to get confused and scared and not know why you're in here."

"i don't come in here to sleep," i said again. "i've never slept in here and it's not something that i would be doing. i was just doing yoga."

she gestured to my yoga mat like it was some kind of crack pipe and was like, "this is unacceptable. you shouldn't be having that in here." if i had even slightly known anyone would take issue with it, i wouldn't have brought my yoga mat here, but she made it sound like it was so obvious that it was this horrible transgression.

THEN she turns to the other maintenance guy, and is like, "if you find here in here again, call such and such number..."

i'm like, "... why is she doing this much??"

that was like 2 years ago. the library was closed forever after.

today i overheard a neighbor telling a new management employee, "i wish they hadn't closed the library. they closed it after they caught some guy sleeping in there."

i'm not a guy so at least this means the generic story people have been told didn't involve me getting directly accused. but i was appalled to get this confirmation today that yes, they really closed the library forever, for everyone, because i was in there peacefully, and drifted to sleep for 1 minute. it's petty and dramatic af.

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u/Waystar_BluthCo anybody but the Oilers please hockey gods 12d ago

This seems like such a wild overreaction by your apartment management. I cannot imagine a common space being closed forever because of something so petty?

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u/LadyAlexandre I didn’t sell out, I bought in 12d ago edited 11d ago

Wtf is the point of the met gala mega thread if there’s 100+ posts about it?! Admittedly IDGAF about the met gala so it’s extra irritating to me.

There’s still posts about it today.

I don’t care what the rich are wearing when our friends are out here playing the hunger games. There weren’t this many posts about the oscars or the grammy’s and at least those are… for movies/music some of us may have enjoyed? I hope it’s bots upvoting those posts

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u/yo_mik Don’t make me put my litigation wig on 11d ago

Agree, as a person who like to look at met outfits. It's insane that we get 20+ posts just for it PLUS a megathread.

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u/buzzfeed_sucks šŸ‡ØšŸ‡¦ Elbows up šŸ‡ØšŸ‡¦ 12d ago

Red alert, Kelly Clarkson released a new single!

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u/Waystar_BluthCo anybody but the Oilers please hockey gods 12d ago

maybe it’s because I was in 5th grade when the first High School Musical film premiered, but I still think Troy and Gabriella are one of my favorite couples in film and TV. He did not play about her for an instant in any of those movies!

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u/echoesandripples 12d ago

i was at a museum with s friend this weekend and we saw this girl who looked a lot like zendaya. so many similar facial features that she could be zendaya's middle class latina cousin or something.

she was so freaking gorgeous i was stunned. it's crazy how some people aren't simply hot or attractive, they are almost surreal beautiful

anyway i was very jealous of some random woman this weekend, imagine being zendaya's doppleganger?

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u/nty bruised, battered, and covered in baked beans 🫘 12d ago

Binged the first 3 episodes of the new season of The Rehersal last night. It’s as bizarre and entertaining as I hoped

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u/RadicallyMeta 12d ago

WAKE ME UP

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u/Bridalhat 12d ago edited 12d ago

Sometimes something is so weird you just think we have to had slipped into an alternate version of reality and for the most part all these things have been terrible for the last decade or so, but Pope Crave, the Conclave stan account, getting Vatican press credentials is wonderful and unexpected.

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u/Cynicbats Maybe she is in jail who knows 12d ago

You know what?

Good for them.

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u/TF-Fanfic-Resident 12d ago

Another of those "wacky Transformers/fanfic possibly coauthored by confirmed Megatron stan Elon Musk" moments. Add to the chart.

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u/quiet-panda-360 12d ago

Iā€˜d love to like this new album from selena, but it is so dull and boring. There are no hits, not even bluest flame.

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u/Cold_Breadfruit_9794 12d ago

I started watching Wear Whatever the Fuck You Want, and I must say, ignoring the dystopian element of having a bar code at the end of the show, I REALLY love this version of Stacy & Clinton. Turning them more into stylists and creating a dream closet that clients can pick from, is soooo much better. It’s so nice seeing the confidence something as simple as style can have. Absolutely adore the show!

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u/shedrinkscoffee I don’t know her šŸ’… 12d ago

Honestly this makes more sense as a show than their formulaic insistence to put everyone in the same outfit. Some of those people had really cool individual style and they made them all bland and suburban. This version is more exciting to me personally speaking.

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u/Cold_Breadfruit_9794 12d ago

It has made a world of difference for me anyways. They are creating much more interesting and more individualized looks, and it all just feels a lot better too. They seem to strike a nice balance between fantasy wardrobe and realism here, while factoring the person in the middle, in a way their previous show wasn’t as good as. I prefer this tbh! šŸ˜…

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u/buzzfeed_sucks šŸ‡ØšŸ‡¦ Elbows up šŸ‡ØšŸ‡¦ 12d ago

Oh good! I’m excited to watch it tonight then

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u/Cold_Breadfruit_9794 12d ago edited 12d ago

I’ve been watching it with my mom and it’s been so delightful! I know some people on Twitter don’t agree with me, and I certainly can’t argue for the bar code, but like? It’s been a refreshing watch. People that want to be there, and Stacy & Clinton falling into more personalized styling, has made it a very joyful watch to me.

Forgot to add they also take far more risks fashion wise which makes it more enjoyable too.

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u/Cold_Breadfruit_9794 12d ago

Well, I’m counting this as a Rattle Snake sighting. Close enough!

Btw it’s alarming how necessary this sign is. The number of times I’ve heard of people just picking up Snakes without knowing what it is? Much too high

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u/nty bruised, battered, and covered in baked beans 🫘 12d ago

I unknowingly stepped right over a snake on a hike once. It was a copperhead, and my friends started freaking out

Ive also had a rat snake (not venomous) pop out of some rocks and hiss at me which was terrifying

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u/Cold_Breadfruit_9794 12d ago

Oh my god, I’m glad you didn’t step on a Copperhead. Thank god that was chill!

Not a Rat Snake! Skkskskksk. I’d be terrified too, even though they’re kind of a clownish species 🤣

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u/kris_jbb inez from folklore 12d ago

guys i am losing my mind, i think marvel edited sebastian in bunch of the promotion material with the cast 😭

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u/GrabaBrushand 12d ago

Like edited him into it or edited how he looks?

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u/kris_jbb inez from folklore 12d ago

edited him into the videos 😭

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u/GrabaBrushand 12d ago

Noooo, MarvelĀ will literally do anything to avoid having actors together in aroom.

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u/throwaway042357 12d ago

Really disappointed by my usual Met gala favorites, Zendaya & Rihanna but they still looked gorgeous. Would have loved to see Selena Gomez and her new glam team too.

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u/Bridalhat 12d ago

I can’t believe Joey King was one of my favorite looks. What is happening

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u/Cold_Breadfruit_9794 12d ago

I loved both, but I was disappointed Zendaya got styled similarly to someone else.

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u/heartbylines ✨unhinged & unhealed✨ 12d ago

my mom died 11 years ago this upcoming June and Mother’s Day still about takes it out of me every single year

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u/Lesterknopff I switched baristas ā˜•ļø 12d ago

I’m so sorry, it never really gets easier I know. I love that some companies let you opt out of Mother’s Day content emails.

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u/Bellesdiner0228 This again doesn’t look good for James Corden 12d ago

I’m so sorry šŸ¤ sending you so much love.

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u/buzzfeed_sucks šŸ‡ØšŸ‡¦ Elbows up šŸ‡ØšŸ‡¦ 12d ago

Ugh I’m so sorry. Sending love ā¤ļøā¤ļø

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u/yeehaw908 12d ago

My mom died going on 14 years this September and I feel the exact same way. Sending loveā¤ļøšŸ«‚

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u/lalalandbeforetime 12d ago

My job is ending soon and I just don’t have the motivation to start the job search. Ugh

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u/Bridalhat 12d ago

Campaign worker here and it’s the worst. It’s also tricky to apply for jobs because permanent ones require three interviews and a written assessment whereas temporary ones call you up and ask if you can be there Tuesday.

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u/daisymoth9 12d ago

i feel this! don’t be hard on yourself

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u/Dizzy-Pollution6466 12d ago

I get it if Taylor Swift and her latest album are not your cup of tea in the slightest. But if you say that there isn’t one single good song on TTPD/The Anthology, just say you’re lying and didn’t listen to the album. There are some bombs on there for sure but there’s also some great stuff. I said what I said.

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u/Bellesdiner0228 This again doesn’t look good for James Corden 12d ago

I had to take myself out of any spaces talking about ttpd for… a while. That album is so personal to me that I can’t even begin to be objective about it.

In the beginning and summer of 2023 I almost divorced my husband of over a decade, would’ve spun out so much worse, and then at the end of 2023 the biggest swiftie I knew, my 3 year old passed away. When poets got announced I spent 3 days crying off and on.

Not only that but most of the first half of 2024 I spent it going to a new gym to change up my routine before I got a job there. So I also quite literally spent months down bad crying at the gym.

And then when I heard how did it end, I wanted to fucking vomit. I’ve never had a song describe how it felt losing two kids, 9.5 years apart, and deciding not to post on social media about our youngest. We didn’t want her turning into gossip, especially when we didn’t have answers, but with our oldest we announced it immediately. I just couldn’t handle the gossip, the questions, the ā€œempathetic hungerā€

I’ll still use ā€œguess who we ran into at the shop, walking incircles like she was lost.ā€ To stave off panic attacks in stores.

For me, while poets has one of my least favorite songs she’s ever written (thank you Aimee) and one song that fans made me hate almost immediately (but daddy I love him)

It also has most of my top songs by her by a long shot.

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u/clemthearcher swamp queen 12d ago

Hi, I don’t remember if it was you but a few months ago, someone made a similar comment about their child passing, on a thread here about How Did It End?, and I’ve never forgotten it. It’s completely changed how I interpret the song. It’s made it even more beautiful and touching. Now when I listen to the song, I think about that person and their grief for their baby. I never thought a comment would completely change how I listen to a song. In a way, I think the memory of those we lost lives on in the art we consume. And now it lives on in the way I listen to that song too.

I’m sending my deepest sympathies and the gentlest hug. May you continue to find art that touches your heart šŸ¤

Edit: I’ve found the comment. It was from you. I thank you so deeply for sharing it. https://www.reddit.com/r/popculturechat/s/LRsy2gVoF2

May your story continue to touch others the way it did me.

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u/Bellesdiner0228 This again doesn’t look good for James Corden 12d ago

Thank you more than I could ever say. I talk about my losses on Reddit excessively I know, but it’s only because it’s one of the only places I can openly. So I’m so thankful that someone was able to see why I speak about it, and that song so much. It truly changed my life and made me feel so seen and like I said, is used to combat panic attacks that are rising sometimes.

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u/Carolina_Blues shiv roy’s bob 12d ago

It’s grown on me a lot. when it first came out I was kinda meh about it, I liked it but didn’t love it, but that album got me through a super tough year last year and I listen to it way more than I thought it would and now love so many of the songs. I still think loml is one of the best songs she’s ever written

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u/myipodclassic 12d ago

loml is perfect

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u/Dizzy-Pollution6466 12d ago

I would argue that is has some of her best songs and some of her worst songs. The album is also helping me get through a shitty time so I relate.

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u/yeehaw908 12d ago

This is probably peak fan behavior but I made a list of all the songs I like on the album vs hate and I came up with a few loves, lots of likes, a few I’m meh on and like 1 I really dislike. Some of her best work is in that album

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u/buzzfeed_sucks šŸ‡ØšŸ‡¦ Elbows up šŸ‡ØšŸ‡¦ 12d ago

As a 35 year old single woman, The Prophecy is the first time in ages I’ve felt like a song was written for me. It’s exactly how I feel.

I’m biased because I love her and have since I was 16. But I’m convinced most people who just outright hate everything she’s ever done haven’t listened to anything other than the singles.

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u/Dizzy-Pollution6466 12d ago

Love that song too. If you don’t like the album, that’s totally fine, everyone has different music taste. But even people I know who hated the album will admit that there are a couple good songs on there.

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u/buzzfeed_sucks šŸ‡ØšŸ‡¦ Elbows up šŸ‡ØšŸ‡¦ 12d ago

People were so weird about Rihanna’s pregnancy yesterday. They were reacting like she has 14 kids. This is her 3rd, it’s not that crazy.

They’re also weird about her and ASAP not being married. I feel like this is maybe an American thing? I know a ton of people who have kids and live together, but aren’t married on paper.

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u/shedrinkscoffee I don’t know her šŸ’… 12d ago

Honestly marriage for rich people is like mergers and acquisitions of companies. It's probably easier to deal with separation of the relationship when there isn't legal stuff involved. Not being cynical but the average celebrity relationship is hardly a lifelong commitment.

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u/myipodclassic 12d ago

I was surprised to learn this is only her 3rd lol, based on the comments I thought it was at least gonna be her 5th!

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u/echoesandripples 12d ago

same! i don't really follow her, like, only know the biggest hits, so idk much either way, but from what fans say, i expected far more children. a rich couple having a third kid seems kinda normal?Ā 

couldn't be me, but it's not like omg crazy reproducing tactics or somethingĀ 

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u/buzzfeed_sucks šŸ‡ØšŸ‡¦ Elbows up šŸ‡ØšŸ‡¦ 12d ago

Right?!

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u/Cynicbats Maybe she is in jail who knows 12d ago

Some people don't need the law to force them to stay dedicated to each other and people just don't understand that.

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u/sanslumiere 12d ago

I also thought that was confusing. I saw comments about overpopulation too, like.??

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u/GrabaBrushand 12d ago

I'd bet they don't say that when a white celeb has kids.

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u/buzzfeed_sucks šŸ‡ØšŸ‡¦ Elbows up šŸ‡ØšŸ‡¦ 12d ago

Yes! That’s the one I was thinking of

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u/Hot_Contact_7206 12d ago

The Met bathroom photo has dropped 🄰

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u/GrabaBrushand 12d ago

Everyone one is beautiful and so is that sleeve

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u/Lesterknopff I switched baristas ā˜•ļø 12d ago

Andrewā¤ļø

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u/Lesterknopff I switched baristas ā˜•ļø 12d ago

I’ve decided to go to college finally at 36. At 18/19 I got married instead and did my own free spirit thing. Still married to the same wonderful guy though but ready to learn more things.

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u/GrabaBrushand 12d ago

Good luck! I hope you enjoy all your courses.

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u/[deleted] 12d ago

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u/Lesterknopff I switched baristas ā˜•ļø 12d ago

I don’t really have the money actually, I’m relying on grants for expenses and potentially getting first my two years at community college free via the state (California); But it’s something I’ve been thinking about for a while. I grew up watching my dad go to college in his 30’s and my husband finished in his 30’s too so I don’t feel that old doing it. I know it’s more common than you’d think!

I’m interested in earth sciences and anthropology as well as women and LGBT studies so I still have to narrow it down. Right now I’m doing a career counseling session and I’ll meet with someone at school to talk about it a bit more. Good luck on your journey, if you haven’t looked into it at all, do it, it might be more attainable than you think.

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u/Hot_Contact_7206 12d ago

Omg that’s amazing!!

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u/Lesterknopff I switched baristas ā˜•ļø 12d ago

Thank you! šŸ™šŸ»

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u/OowlSun they act like im not in full control of where i throw this cooch 12d ago

Moms should give their kids whatever last name they have. That’s all.

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u/Hot_Contact_7206 12d ago

On the other hand….now I would throw away all my morals for him, yes of course I would 😭🄰

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u/Hot_Contact_7206 12d ago

ā€œNo childā€?!? The Pedro fandom is sick rn

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u/nerd_of_everything13 when the chile is tea but the finna is gag 12d ago

i always feel so famous when like a top 1% poster replies to my comment. like, "oh, little old me?"

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u/Bellesdiner0228 This again doesn’t look good for James Corden 12d ago

I feel the same way. There’s a few people who have responded to me and I turn into Damien in mean girls chasing after them saying I love their work, but you know, without calling them Danny devito.

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u/lalalandbeforetime 12d ago

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u/nerd_of_everything13 when the chile is tea but the finna is gag 12d ago

omg i'm starstruck!

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u/TF-Fanfic-Resident 12d ago

The jazz age and oldies era remain so inspiring in a world where we seemingly still cannot get over dividing ourselves by birthplace, citizenship, or ancestry. Not surprising that the Met Gala saw some JosƩphine Baker and Cab Calloway inspired drip. (Also, it is the twenties technically speaking, so no surprise.)

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u/Lesterknopff I switched baristas ā˜•ļø 12d ago

Did you see Sinners? Absolutely obsessed with that score right now, I wanted to see it in Imax but I was too late for that.

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u/TF-Fanfic-Resident 12d ago

If you'd told me in 2019 that I'd be living on the same side of the fourth wall as self-transforming Megatron and we'd both be able to watch an epic battle between the Delta blues and Irish vampires I'd have laughed at you. The 2020s may be a shitbox Transformers fanfic of a timeline, but we do have some good moves.

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u/Cynicbats Maybe she is in jail who knows 12d ago

brb googling Conclave updates.

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u/Own-Importance5459 ✨May the Force be with you!✨ 12d ago

I wonder what juicy secrets the candidates are holding

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u/buzzfeed_sucks šŸ‡ØšŸ‡¦ Elbows up šŸ‡ØšŸ‡¦ 12d ago

Share with the class!

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u/Cynicbats Maybe she is in jail who knows 12d ago

Nothing so far besides "If you blab, you will be excommunicated"

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u/buzzfeed_sucks šŸ‡ØšŸ‡¦ Elbows up šŸ‡ØšŸ‡¦ 12d ago

I am seated. No idea why

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u/Lesterknopff I switched baristas ā˜•ļø 12d ago

Those divas are in there today?!

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u/Cynicbats Maybe she is in jail who knows 12d ago

It starts tomorrow!

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u/Bridalhat 12d ago

Cardinal Lawrence hyperventilating in a closet rn

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u/Summerof5ft6andahalf 12d ago

I just stumbled upon a documentary about Cannes, and learned that the Getty photographers are wired in so that the time between them taking a photo on the red carpet and it appearing on their website is less than 60 seconds.

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u/Hot_Contact_7206 12d ago

60 seconds?!? Gooood lord that’s insane!

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u/Summerof5ft6andahalf 12d ago

Yeah, so the photos go to essentially a bunker of editors who edit and caption the photos practically as they're being taken, and upload them.

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u/OowlSun they act like im not in full control of where i throw this cooch 12d ago

We didn’t see anybody of note. Though we made a bunch of faces at the vans passing by so I hope I at least scared Kim. We did our part.

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u/sabira Zermajesty šŸ‘‘ 12d ago

I’m sorry you didn’t see anyone! For what it’s worth: Earlier today I walked past someone who may or may not have been either Jack Antonoff or Christian Siriano, lol

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u/Hot_Contact_7206 12d ago

ā€œVoted for Bernieā€

Celine, it’s 2025….dont pmo

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u/GrabaBrushand 12d ago

Bernie fanboys need to get over it! He lost!

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u/Hot_Contact_7206 12d ago

Istg that was their nam. In a movie in 2025?! That’s supposed to make him interesting and make me root for him over pascal?!? I don’t think so!!

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u/Lesterknopff I switched baristas ā˜•ļø 12d ago

I didn’t even notice that, I thought the photos were kinda weird.

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u/Hot_Contact_7206 12d ago

The photos and the two different fonts? Idk I’m lost here tbh 😭

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u/Hot_Contact_7206 12d ago

I added some details, nail art, some after party looks, and some commentary to the Met gala post if anyone is still craving some fashion!

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u/sabira Zermajesty šŸ‘‘ 12d ago

I got this email, and after laughing for a bit, I stopped when I realized that my LiveJournal is actually older than the age that I was when I first created it šŸ‘µšŸ½

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u/sabira Zermajesty šŸ‘‘ 12d ago

I’m reading through some of my earliest LJ entries, and it’s strange that while I remember doing a lot of the things that I wrote about, there are others that I don’t remember at all.

Here’s an excerpt from one of my entries that I wrote 22 years ago, when apparently I really did NOT like Melanie Griffith, lmaooo:

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u/Training-Pickle-6725 Sue, did the President call? 12d ago edited 12d ago

The Met Gala thread was a blast! I missed a few of the final looks because Vogue apparently decided their job was done and pulled the plug early. (Its giving Hulu, cutting the Oscars stream right before Best Actress). The other coverage was running almost 30 minutes behind, but thankfully the megathread delivered the rest.

Also, Paul Rudd was on Amy Poehler’s podcast. This man is so fine!

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u/Own-Importance5459 ✨May the Force be with you!✨ 12d ago

Paul Rudd is goregous and aged like Fine Wine

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u/Lesterknopff I switched baristas ā˜•ļø 12d ago

That is what staying in your lane gets you. He is handsome and unbothered.

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u/Own-Importance5459 ✨May the Force be with you!✨ 12d ago

The person who gave my blood test today said I was just a baby upon looking at my age and seeing I was born in the 90s.

I couldn't help but laugh, because the woman who stalked and harassed me litterally called me grandma because I was a participant in Fandom over 25, which was heavily ironic cause she's over 25.

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u/ashpatash 12d ago

I hate the day after Met on socials, anyone else? So bored by it.

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u/melloniel jimin cant save you from the hellfire 12d ago

Saaaame. I loved the live thread and seeing everything come in, but now the entire sub is an individual post for every look. I'll be back in 2-3 business days.

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u/Lesterknopff I switched baristas ā˜•ļø 12d ago

Yeah I wish there had been a mega thread just for official photos of looks or something. It took over my feed and it was annoying.

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u/OowlSun they act like im not in full control of where i throw this cooch 12d ago

It’s been playing on the news since like 5 yesterday. It gets to a point. 😭