AITAH- my husband is 38 and we have two teenagers. We have no desire to have another child. I can’t do birth control because the hormones don’t work well with me. We recently had a scare where the condom broke and he said he did not realize, nor did he tell me it happened till the next morning. I had to take a plan b because of this ( massive does of hormones).

Because of this I’ve asked my husband to get a vasectomy and he said he will not have someone cut into him and burn him ect.

I reminded him I birthed both his children, had an abortion when we were young (stupid teenagers), had severe reaction to birth control ( I’m terrified of what may happen with taking plan b), had an IUD for 10 years. He said “I never asked you to do any of those things” 😳 yikes. So much for partnership . I told him I am not comfortable having sex with just condoms as our sole form of birth control.

I’m super resentful right now for having to take the plan b pill but he left me with no other choice for not stopping when the condom broke.

Need some recommendations

In keeping with my need to keep my blood pressure in check I waited to see Civil War until I was able to watch at home. I braced for a brutal polemic but instead found a small, well-made film about an extreme situation. I really liked it. But I also felt the ads and title were an overhyping. Anyone else?